My boyfriend broke up with me and told me that he still wants to talk to me though. So yeah we talked even after our brake up cause I miss him and now, he doesn't even make an effort to talk to me anymore like before. In fact, I'm the one who has been trying to reach him lately. Do I seem desperate if I'm always the one making the effort to communicate with him first. I mean I message and call him at least twice a month. Is that desperate?
If he still wants to talk to you after, it is probably because he hasn't completely moved on yet. Then you keep calling him, making yourself seem desperate and helping him to move on completely. It is not fair I know, but it seems as though he already has moved on.
No... he was your boyfriend. Just because he broke up with you doesn't mean all your feelings are magically going to disappear. If they did "heartbreaks" wouldn't exist. My advice would be to let him go. If he doesn't want to talk to you that's his loss don't waste your time on a guy who doesn't waste any time on you. You will find someone better who WANTS to spend time and talk with you.
rosynante
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Yes. if you do that a few times, it's okay. If you keep doing it, you are being obsessive and not letting go. Time to move on to someone who deserves you!
My boyfriend of all of a month, seems to count who has said "I love you" the most. If I hang up without saying it in the previous conversation (we...
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
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