Middle size and lower. No bones No more than medium. Smaller than medium is a plus but average is fine. More, isn't a turn on least not for me. And scrawny isn't a turn on. Don't want a skeleton thank you. And I don't want a girl that is like gonna crush me either YUK. Although there are some guys out there that dig that, but not me.
Depends on the guy . I wouldn't care for an Olive Oyle, nor would I care for a Lulu . If she has a great personality, anything in between . It might have to do with age . I liked smaller girls when I was in school and now I'm much older, I tend to see more than their size .
In younger men, size does matter greatly . But older men are much more lenient as we(i'm 38) are not exactly perfectly fit either . A good fit would be sizes 6 through 9 as smaller is too thin and 10 and larger are . Well . Um . Unattractive . But if a woman is well proportionate, then it's even more lenient .
Excessive girth can be dealt with . If one is too fat, there are solutions that work . It's easier to lose weight than to lose an addiction: smoking, drugs and so on .
However, size makes a first impression as someone else mentioned . Yet a man can easily change his mind about a voluptuous woman if he likes her .
Sorry, but I don't know those sizes . I assume they're really slim ? Okay . I think that size does make a difference . Now before you raze a lynch mob to find me, read further . It makes a difference to first impressions . I think that anyone that relies on first impressions only is pathetic and setting themselves up to look it too . First impressions can't take into account what the girl is really like . Perhaps you didn't see the person for who they truly are, and then you get with them only to find that this person is a stiff necked weirdo . You can't tell that from the first impression, can you ? Yet you've now gone and missed out on the most amazing person in the world just because the person you were interested in looks aesthetically better . It's absolutely DAFT to rely on those first impressions .
More than the size of a girl matters, is what she feels about her size . Is she comfortable in her own skin ? If not, she's not likely to make a better second impression . Self confidence is a huge deal as the second impression is far longer lasting for guys like me .
Do I want anything to do with girls that are larger ? It depends on her as a person . I've met some girls that make me cringe with their attitudes or morals (or lack thereof) . Those are the girls I want nothing to do with . On the other hand, I've met some really awesome girls that are upstanding and always make those around them feel absolutely special . It has Nothing to do with size . It's always about her as a person .
I mean they don't have to be 0-6, but thinner girls are generally more attractive . I don't really know womens clothing sizes but I prob wouldn't date a girl much bigger than a 6 or so unless it was just due to height . (75% of guys agree with this, they probably won't admit it though)
I think the other guys are being a little too nice . So I'm trying to give you a little more realistic advice . But also some guys like bigger women so that is always an option as well .
No that's not true ! With some guys it is . But to be honest those guys are asses to be perfectly honest it really is what's on the inside . Myself I would choose a girl that's outgoing, smart and funny compared to size.
I think it depends on the guy. I'm from down south and the boys like girls with junk in the trunk. Not fat or sloppy, but small waist and big booty - like a coke bottle shape. Just work on your body, make sure its proportionate and healthy, and walk with confidence and you'll always pull guys
I read somewhere that guys are drawn to a certain waist-hip ratio. I think it was like 70-80%. So it doesn't really matter how much someone weighs, more like if the proportions are still recognizable. I'll admit I'm a size 18 and obese and people still think I look cute, so it's not that big of a deal!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I think every first date needs to be different but I will generalize. I think starting off some where fun like events, parks, or beaches to chat and learn about one another. Then head to a coffee shop to warm up sitting next to the fire. Then head out to eat if we feel up to it. Ask if she would like to ride on my motorcycle. Stop some where romantic chat for away then drive her home.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I like the outdoors, I can chat about anything over a cup of coffee. She will learn about me and what I like to do and then she will learn how much I love riding my motorcycle.
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