I've liked this one girl who works at a bank me and a friend of mine go to. He asked one of the four who normally work in there, "whats the story with her, does she have a boyfriend? " The reply was a head shake, yes. We normally talk to one lady in there who is married. The one I like has been there for a few months and have hardly talked to her. He goes in and I go to the drive through. I go through the drive-thru to see/talk to her. The lady inside saw me and she says why don't I come in. I laughed it off. I came the next day and got there to late and the window was closed, but she saw me and I just told her I was just to late, but unlike my friend, I like coming thru the drive thru. Anyways, advance one week later. I go in this time and raised a ruckus. The one who was inside started picking on me, then the drive-thru girl (who I adore), says oh I see, well I got other friends who use the drive-thru (she was smiling and laughing). I told my friend, I'm gonna do what I thought about doing the day before. She was smiling and laughing cause we were cutting up, well I was at least. She attended a drive thru customer, so I made a paper airplane and threw it at her. It missed but hit her drinking cup. She turned around with a smile and looked at me. I head motioned it was my friend who done it. She picked it up. We told them have a good weekend and left. Me and my friend were out in the parking lot talking about what happened. I said, I'm gonna do what I planned on doing, cause so far, What I thought would happen did. He had to go, but told me to let him know what happens. I said ok. I got a deposit slip and filled it out. At the top where there's the date fill in spot, I wrote "anytime" and the date. At the bottom I put a smiley face. I deposited a $1. 00. I drove around to the drive thru and both of them were waiting there, both grinning from ear to ear. The one who we talked to in the bank, said she you were up to something. I said I was covering my bases. We all laughed and the one who's in side walked away. I got no big response when she deposited my dollar, but she smiled very pleasantly and laughed mildly while we both told each other to have a good weekend. I've not dated anyone new in 16 years, so I'm clueless now. She's amazing with that smile, that glow she gives off with that personality and very beautiful. What do I need to do? How do I know she wants me to ask her if she is interested?
I would say she seems pretty interested. But you said she had a boyfriend right? Well you have to be very careful about this as you don't want to get yourself into problems. I think, like lilmiss said, talk to her about her boyfriend and watch carefully how she reacts. Just work your way from their.
And by the way, that paper airplane idea was really cute, as was the deposit one. = )
Well, she's got a boyfriend, not a husband. It definitely sounds like you sparked a little something in her heart with the deposit slip trick and the paper airplane. Very cute btw=-) It sounds like at the very least, she's attracted to you. You probably shocked and flattered her and that's definitely a good thing! I would try talking to her about this boyfriend to see how serious she is with him and watch her facial expressions and body language as she's talking about him, it'll say a lot. It sounds like the ice has been broken and now you have to dig through the pieces to find what your next move should be.
A friend of mine asked about her one time when he was in the bank and another teller said she had a boyfriend. That was a month or month and a half ago. I only seen a ring on her hand, the week of Valentines Day, that was the only time. May not mean anything though. - 3 months ago
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Could be a ring from a relative and maybe just maybe the other teller was a little jealous and said that she has a boyfriend just to take the attention away from her. - 3 months ago
It sounds like there might be something there, but if the other co-workers said she has a boyfriend than I would back off a little bit. One piece of advice I have for you, I have known some girls who work in customer service type jobs who come across as a flirt when they are just being nice. I would give her your phone number and tell her that when she is not dating anybody that you would like the chance to take her out.
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