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How long should you be dating before you ask her if she loves you?

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schavster (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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How long should you be dating before you ask if "she really loves you"?

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OnoNw1
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OnoNw1 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 13 days ago
do you have another girl you're interested in so you don't waste time on this girl who doesn't love you potentially? wicked. usually after great sex is the right time; any time before that is way too soon. besides girls are simple, least I think, we just want to be around a good uh. well yea a good lover :).
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Sundown
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Sundown (Age:25 to 29)      When: 22 days ago
Why do you have to ask her if she loves you. How long should you be dating before you tell her that you love her? That's the question!
You can't put a time on love. You can only express your feelings.
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ohanagurl
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ohanagurl (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
You shouldn't ask this kind of question. I think if you love her like really love her I think you would know when the right time is. You and yourself is the only person who can give you this question.
But I would say 2 three 3 months or when you guys are like totally comfortable with each other.
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Deeplove55
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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
You shouldn't have to ask. Her actions should show it. that's how you know. She'll listen to you, respect you, call you all the time, she'll say it,
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DSsgurl16
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DSsgurl16 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Well there isn't really a period time you have to be dating but you don't wanna move too fast. It depends on your feelings for her especially if y'all have been together for a while. Maybe you should just sit her down and talk to her when you feel it's the time to talk.
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fergieatheart
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fergieatheart (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Well first of all, you're not supposed to ask if she loves you. You're supposed to tell her you love her! And it's different with every relationship. Say it when you're sure.
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kevin-camron
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kevin-camron (Age:18 to 24)      When: 12 days ago
hehe, you won't fall in love during the dating periods dude,how long could dating go on?i guess maximum a month,but love is a hard thing to come by it takes time,now don't confuse love with proximity infatuation.
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darkkakashi004
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darkkakashi004 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 29 days ago
4 months
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
You don't tell her you love her, wait for her to tell you she loves you, then tell her.
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babygurl-2008 I guess guys see it different with most girls. Most girls are waiting for the guy to tell them that he loves her. well unless its the type of chick that's not that comfortable with it I guess but for the most part girls can't wait for a guy to tell her he loves her - 23 days ago
badass I'll agree with tex. Be a man, usually if you show your really really emo side it is bad. The girl might as well date another girl for that. - 9 days ago

homer
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homer (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
I don't think there is a time limit to start loving someone. It varies. And I don't think asking someone if they really love you is the way to go. You should be able to tell from their actions, or even better, you should hear it too. Just be patient and if everything is going well, you probably won't even have to ask anything.
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