Ok so this guy I'm friends with. We went out couple times. We've held hands and made out once. Things were fine then, but never was sure what we were. but now he's avoiding me lately. Before he used to always ask to hang out and what not. Not anymore. during the break he said he'd call me but never did. Then coming back to school it almost feels like he's trying to avoid me, but being passively aggressive about it. But he still walks with me and talks with me. But it almost seems fake. And he tries to avoid to talk with me as we did before. its like wtf is his problem? Its not like we were dating or anything awkward happened. Is he just being an emotional b****? I'm kinda sick of this bullshit. what do you think his problem is?
Update: So I messaged him and asked why we haven't hung out in a while. if he doesn't respond is it safe to bet he's not interested anymore?
3 months ago
You had a guy show interest in you, had a few laughs, kissed him, the works right. and now your upset because he wants you to chase him a little? Wheres your sense of fun and play baby?
Over break, he acts distant. Either 1 of 2 things has happened over the break: 1. He found another girl he likes and hasn't told you
2. In some way he feels like you didn't feel the same way about him as he did about you.
Since the first option is too easy to explain, I'm going to talk about the second option since its what sounds like actually happened anyway.
I can relate to this guy somewhat because I too have been annoyed by girls who I try to date and they don't tell me or show me that they accept my advances and its really nerve racking. It even gets to the point where you think the girl just doesn't care and you stop talking to her, maybe even being slightly pissed that it could have gone somewhere have I known that she wanted more.
Talk to the guy, simple as that. Talk to him, ask him what's up, why is acting like a bitch? , what is his deal? , why doesn't he want to suck your face off anymore? If you ask these questions, it won't come across like you're a needy desperate girl or something trust me, us guys aren't to keen on that sort of thing.
I did ask him to hang out numerous times after that. He always said he was busy or didn't really give me a straight answer about it. So I started to give up asking by that time. but now that I started to "give up" its almost like his attitude is getting a little more back to normal. But yeah I think you're right the only way I'll know is to talk. - 3 months ago
But not really. Force him to say something about it, better yet say it for him and give him only "yes" and "no" as answers. Chances are, he thought it was going somewhere, and contrary to popular belief, guys have emotions and feelings too, especially in high school. They're emotional f**ckin' wrecks inside. WHOA! You messed up by goin' nowhere with it.
Try this: Watch Stargate SG-1 and become a huge fan. Its a cool show.
Uh that was the point. I wanted more. I didn't expect nor really want a relationship. But now he starts acting like a little bitch so I don't know what the hell is going on. - 3 months ago
Let him know that his 'hot-cool reactions' are really hurting you and confusing you - and you really want to know what is going on. Ask him to give you the truth, even if you think that it may hurt you. Perhaps this guy has decided he wants to be friends with you, or isn't exactly sure how you feel about him (you have verbalized it). Let him know that he doesn't have to do you any favors - except tell you exactly how he feels towards you (you are asking for his honesty) -- perhaps next time you two are walking alone, approach him with this questions and make sure he gives you brutal honesty. If you don't get a chance to be wit him alone person-to-person, text him or call him later during the day when you know he is free and alone and able to talk to you about what is going on. No one should have to be on an emotional-roller-coaster. I hope this helps!
Hmmm am cool with all what you said but if I may say its like he no more loves you so if you don't mind you can try me and see how things will move with us and my email address is mquarshie@yahoo. Com my phone number is 00233245796346 wish to hear from you soon wish you all the best cheers
He is the one who made all the moves and now he's the one acting weird. I never forced anything. I don't mind still being just friends but he's the one acting all weird. - 3 months ago
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