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Why am I always "the friend" to guys?

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Thumperbca (Age:25 to 29)     When: 3 months ago
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I have always had a lot of guy friends and over the years I have developed feelings for some of them. But I always get the classic 'I think of you as "One of the guys"'. So how do I stop this 'friend' pattern from continuing?

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maximus242 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I don't think there is anything better than a girlfriend who you can talk to like she is just one of the guys. Just be confident around them and start flirting. From there I would say you should just dress a little more sexy and they will start to notice how hot their friend is.

Overall, most guys dream every once in a while that they had a hot girlfriend who they could do all the cool guy stuff with. Just be that girl and your set.
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rock1281
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rock1281 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Show them your interested, probably would have to be with new boys you meet. You can't be to shy and try to be their best friend, so some guts and do work.
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digginme19239 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Oh my god, my friend Amy said grab his butt! When he's not looking!

So now I don't know what would happen, and lol, she's got to be brave for that one I think, and is this an answer or my own question?

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Question Asker I love your friend Amy ... she's hilarious! - 8 days ago

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magicallydelicious (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I know, I've been there before. Despite there being some possible attraction in the beginning, if it never amounts to anything romantic initially and you guys just stay friends, they will start to consider you "one of the guys. " I agree with rock, show them interest in the beginning BEFORE they label you as just a friend.
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angel-of-death (Age:Under 18)

What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Well I'm not usually a fan of pick up lines, I'm more the kinda guy who would just go up and say hey and take it from there.
If I had to choose one it would be something like, would it be wrong for a guy like me to start a casual conversation with a beautiful girl like you?

How do they typically respond?
It's hard to judge really, I'm quite a shy person soo I usually talk to girls online first before meeting them so there are a few things to talk about first. I've only ever used that line once and I got the girsl number afterwards soo I guess that's pretty good :)

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