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When he doesn't say it, how do you know that he's in love with you?

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WindChaser (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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Men generally are known as the less verbal communicator between the sexes. When we are wrong in an argument, we are not likely to apologize verbally and say something like, I am wrong and I am sorry. As a child, we were taught to hold back the tears and bottle in our pain when we got hurt. And just by the way nature has built us, we bond with others not by chatting as women normally do but by physically doing activities together. So a potential problem is that men may not verbally express their feelings to their women during their relationship especially the early part of the relationship. Ladies and gentlemen(guys just vote on what you would do), I would like to know how you can tell when a man is expressing his feeling of love without verbally saying "I love you. " What are the non-verbal indicators that a man is in love with a woman?
If there is another way you can tell that a man is in love and it is not listed here, please list it and elaborate on it a bit.
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He smiles a lot more when he sees her

He buys more flowers and gifts for her

He puts her first on his priority list

He hugs and holds her more

He makes more love with her

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Lady-in-Waiting
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Lady-in-Waiting (Age:36 to 45)      When: A month ago
The gleam in his eyes (soft eyes or puppy dog eyes).

A genuine smile is hard to fake. Especially when you see he is TRYING to fight the smile, but he JUST CAN'T HELP IT.

Those things just melt my heart.
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LilMiss (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I know my boyfriend loves me when I look in his eyes. He gets this sweet, indescribable gleam that just melts my heart. His kiss speaks more words than just simply telling me he loves me. That's how I know, maybe it's different for others.
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AshleyL
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
That's a hard choice. When someone loves you, you just know it. He smiles more, hugs you more, put you first on his priorities, it just happens. You know when someone love you because you just feel it in the way that they look at you. At least for me anyway. I think the best indicator is when he starts making you his number one priority. He puts you above everyone else and it's not like he is sacrificing just setting his priorities, so you know that you mean a lot to him.
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Kat1018
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Kat1018 (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
This is a tuffy! Although I love to analyze everything, and not to mention am also very out spoken! Still a tuffy! If its that can't eat, can't sleep, over the fence World Series kinda thing, you dare to let it go! Every little thing that she does drive you wild! She most likely already knows that you are loving her. Everything that you do will show it off! When with a person that you are in love with, expressions, tone of voice, let that special person get over on you a few times, even a bit of jealousy!
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rebell1975
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rebell1975 (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
He smiles more, I agree with hyp65, everything else can be faked, but not a genuine smile. If he looks in her eyes a lot.
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wonderer (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
I voted see. If he puts her first on his priority list then that is a good indicator that he is in love with her.
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Question Asker Good job on the voting =) thank you
Here is something to consider though. He could be in love with you if he puts you first in his priority list, but then again, he might not be. What if the man you are with happens to be a clingy guy? He was just waiting to have someone, any girlfriend, to cling to. So once he got his girlfriend, he neglects all other aspects in his life and focuses on her only because he badly needs someone to be there for him. Would you say this is love? - A month ago
 
 

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snova
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snova (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Hey bro nice poll you got there. when I was falling in love with my girlfriend, she told me I was hugging and kissing her a lot more!! so D!!
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Question Asker Lol what are you doing here? - A month ago

hyp65
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hyp65 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I chose A because people can fake the rest easily and its easy to tell when a smile is not sincere. So a genuine smile = genuine feelings =)
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