A girl contacted me via an online dating meet site. I gave her my number and she called me twice everyday for a week before we met for our first date. We had a great time and the fireworks went off. She spent the night with me that night and we made plans to see each other some more. We spoke on the phone again for about three more days, but for about the last three days I haven't heard from her, and she doesn't answer her phone. I'm confused. What should I do. I want to see her again, but don't want to seem pushy.
Update: As it turns out, I called her last week using a different phone and she answered. She proceeded to say that she had been busy and then made plans to come over that night-her suggestion. However, she did not show up and wouldn't answer calls or texts. FLAKY
2 months ago
From my thoughts and past mistakes. When you have intercourse it ruins things and good bye jack. She don't want to see ya no more. I used to ignore men who I used as my boy toy.
There could be a few different reasons why she isn't responding try emailing her to make sure she is ok If you guys slept together on your first date, she might be questioning your intentions or maybe regretting her decision. when you do speak to her again, don't be afraid to open up some communication about the direction of your relationship and the seriousness in which you take it so that she understands and so are aware of how she feels.
She hasn't called you bc she's not your gf, she's just a girl you've been on a date with. She lost interest in you that's why she never called you oh and bad idea on the whole using another phone to contact her. Hate to say it but you probably scared this one off keep on fishing my friend and if I were you don't talk to her or you might come off as a stalker to her. Just move on plenty of other fish out there in the sea.
Yeah when a girl doesn't get in touch with me I usually worry about whether something happened to them. She could have lost her phone. Try emailing to see if she is ok. Say, "listen I'm worried something happened to you, please let me know if you are ok"
If she still doesn't answer, something might have happened or she is just rude as hell. If she is rude, move on.
I agree with iridescent, although it could also possibly she just wanted to drop it and move on, it depends what kind of girl she is. Just be ready if things continue to go south and make sure she's okay.
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