Ok so I met this guy in Paris a month ago. We didn't sleep together, he started calling me everyday. Then he came to Milano yesterday, staying in his friends villa. Of course, I pampered myself up; manicure, pedicure, waxing, hair done etc etc doing my best to please him.
He took me out for lunch then his friend Paolo came and he suggested dinner so he asked me to bring a girlfriend so we could go out all four. I had to go and pick up the girlfriend and come back to the villa. After dinner, we went to a club and he met a girl he changed number with (in front of me). She looked like a cheap girl.. I got really upset. He asked me what was wrong and I told him I did not appreciate his behavior. He said he knows her from Paris and that I was overreacting. Bah overreacting. Guys am I overreacting?
Eventually, we came back to villa, started making out and ended up sleeping together. He wanted me to stay over so I did. In the morning, my girlfriend had to go to work so I left while he was asleep to take her back home.
I sent him a text message saying I hope he slept well, explaining I took girlfriend back home and "big kiss". The WHOLE day, I had no news and got really upset and sad and disappointed about his behavior.
He just called, it is 11PM in Milano, I got pissed because it was so noisy behind, like all his friend were having a party. GRRR.. I just said, "I can't hear you, it is too noisy". He said "I call you later"
WTF is wrong with this guy? Couldn't he call me during the day when it was quiet? What do you think about it? AM I overreacting?
It sounds like you were a lot more serious about what was happening between the two of you than he was. I know relationships are somewhat different in Europe, but good manners are universal! He sounds like a player; forget him!
You are not overreacting. If he had any reasons to give you not to overreact, you wouldn't have. He didn't make you comfortable and you felt the part. He probably is a player and just wanted to have good time and eventually did. And didn't call all day because he didn't care about much aside from just having fun. Mismatch of expectations it seems.
This guy is probably a player so you're not necessarily overreacting to be pissed but you shouldn't expect much after one month with no real sign of commitment. Just enjoy the time together or move on to someone more ready and willing to be with you and only you. He may come around but his actions so far say otherwise.
He sounds like a player. If he was really into you he would have called real soon after he got your txt msg. And even if he wasn't a player his behavior already is making you unhappy. And in the 1st while of dating people are on their best behavior. Its only gonna get worse from here , so id move on and find someone who matches your style more and can make you as happy as you deserve to be.
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