Ok, so my boyfriends house is right off a main street that I pass all the time since I live off the same main road. I can see his house. I was driving by going to the store and saw him outside with another woman. He was helping her up the stairs (his house has 3 stairs) into his house. What the heck am I supposed to think about that? I sent him a text and asked what he was up to tonight and he text back like 45 mins later and said that he was hanging out with his brother. So I don't know what to think. If I ask him about it, I can't prove anything what if he just lies to me? I don't know what to do or think.
That lady could have been his sister or his brother's wife / girlfriend. Or she could have been some other relative. Or she could have been just a friend of his brother. Ask him about it. Don't jump to conclusions so quickly.
Well, just be like who was that girl you helped into your house and see what he says. He probably doesn't know you saw him so he would have to lie real quick which is hard.
Yeah. Even more so for him since he's not that smart. Sweetest guy in the world and would do anything for me, but not smart at all. Thanks. - 3 months ago
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Ha Ha if he's so sweet do you really think he's doing anything? Yea I used to do it to my ex I would bring up something on the spot and get her to try to explain things to me and the reasons for some things were so far out there it was great - 3 months ago
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Yeah. He is a nice guy, but has been distant lately. It could have been his brothers girlfriend, but I don't know. He has told me several times that he would never do anything like that to me, he cares way to much about me, but I still have my doubts, especially since I was cheated on in my last relationship, - 3 months ago
What's there to prove? You saw it for yourself. Ask him who he was helping up his stairs and if he lies about it or tries to change the subject, that's all you need to validate what you're thinking. Very rarely is a woman's instinct ever wrong. Go with it and don't let him toy with you hun. Best of luck!
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