Ask a Question Answer a question Read/Write Articles Rate Members articles | sign up










McGturtle

Should I leave him alone?

Average Rating: Not yet rated!
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
McGturtle (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
Views: 55     Category: Break-Up
My boyfriend broke up with me after a big argument. I don't want it to be over between us. Is it alright for me to keep trying to understand why he did it or try to talk to him? He said "Its over. Don't call me tomorrow and don't text me tomorrow. " Should I leave him alone and do what he said or should I try to make everything better. Or should I just leave him alone for a bit then pop up? I mean, I'm scared that if I leave him alone it will make it seem like I don't care that he broke up with me.

3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question  Email Friend Widgets Note This
Answers
  From Guys  
1
From Girls  
1
 

What Guys Said

Selected as Best Answer
 
Anonymous User
N/A  
Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Personally, I would let him to come to you. If you give him enough space he will either realize the following, yes he likes you and still has feelings for you or no it wasn't meant to be. Also if you give him his space this will give him time to miss you. If you bombard him with calls/texts he won't get the opportunity to find what he really enjoying about you. And also too many calls and texts can come desperate.
I think give him some time, maybe a week. Follow up with a text after a week saying something like, hey hope everything is going okay with you? That shows that you care without coming across desperate. I know that word is horrible, but guys don't like needy girls. Find something to keep you occupied like a hobby or call a friend if you need to talk to someone, it's good to vent it out somewhere.

Good luck, and remember the old saying: If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it's yours if it doesn't. Well it was never meant to be!
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 

What Girls Said

wildd
2763  
wildd (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well, if you still like him and think you can make it all better then maybe you should try talking to him for the sake of good times. But, if he really doesn't want to talk to you or tries to block you out then I'm sorry but you JUST have to let go. Like you said he doesn't want to be together. I think that you should give the "lets talk" idea one last chance. If he's not open about it. To the hell with him. Just let it go. I mean, the logic is, he breaks up with you, you give the relationship one last try for a mend, and lets say he rejects. There is no way he can blame you for the break up. After all, HE IS the one breaking up in the first place. You are worth so much more and there are plenty of other guys out there and I hope you find the best one!
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 
Related Questions
Search
A Girl Asked Dealing with a Break Up After Living with someone
Hey ladies & gents -- My beau and I recently broke up after living together for 10 months and it has been really really tough. He was the first man...   View Answers
A Girl Asked Dealing with a break in a relationship what do her actions words mean? Wat should I do?
My girlfriend and I of 6 months went on a break 3 weeks ago. She suggested the break telling me I was broken, that she can't relationship wise, and...   View Answers
Find more questions on
dealing with a break up
Home > Break-Up Questions > Should I leave him alone?
 
Not a member yet? Sign Up for free in 1 easy step!
  
My Icon
0
Questions View
Answers View
Stories/Articles View
Messages View
Shout Outs View
Reality Check Create
Notebook View
Guys: Do you really fall in love with a girl?
lvrgirl2011 asked 2 days ago

Yes, I've been in love.

No, I've never been in love.

I'm scared to love someone.

LOVE is an over-used word that doesn't have meaning.

Invite a Friend
Invite Friend

dukefan18 (Age:18 to 24)

Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would go to a nice place with the right atmosphere. When it comes to clothes I like to keep it simple nothin to fancy. The way it would end for me is a kiss right after I walked her to the door.

Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm a great guy with an awesome personality.

Would you date me?
Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help
Affiliates
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Links
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2008 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.