Ok well I was at my boyfriend's house and I was in his room. I then found a letters from this other girl. It said pretty good stuff about "do you still want me to look for a girl for you isn't the girl you have enough". Then he came to the room and I brought the subject up. He got mad cause I actually got those notes. If I wouldn't of gone through this stuff I would of never known what type of person he was. And now I don't know if our relationship is going to be the same. Was it right reading those letters.
No, it's never ok to invade someone else's privacy. However now that you know what you know and if you're sure "the girl you have" actually refers to you and not some other girl (were the letters dated? ) I think it raises some serious questions about your relationship and I don't think you can trust him.
In some ways no because its his business and he might not want to share it. But on the other hand maybe he's hiding the truth so it is an okay thing to do.
I think it was fine to read the letter if it was sitting out. I am not for snooping, but if you are in a relationship with this this guy, he should be honest with you. As for text messages, I think if your boyfriend's phone is sitting there an a text pops up, you shouldn't have to overt your eyes, you should be able to read it and trust that your boyfriend isn't a sleaze-bag.
Texts don't just pop up on peoples phones you have to actively go into the message to look at it which shows you don't trust your boyfriend - 2 months ago
It was wrong to read someone else's letters, not even your boyfriend's. It was just like reading someone else's text messages. A lot of break-ups and marital separations are caused by these. So sorry, even I would not tolerate such snooping around. It is disrespect to a person's privacy whatever reason there is.
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