Well me and this guy have been talking for about a month now. Maybe just 3 weeks. Well last night he told me that he loved me. "I LOVE YOU" It's really kinda soon for me.
Out of the time I known him (approx a month) I have seen him about 8 times. How does he know he loves me already? He's 25 and I'm 19. He's white and I'm black. We get along great and I know soon enough I will fall in love but its been such a short time! Do you think he's serious? I feel the passion but just not sure.
If he says he loves you, then he doesn't know what love is. Sounds like he has low self esteem, and will just throw out "I love you" like it's nothing. Just be careful with him and take things slow.
Usually guys that say I love you really soon in a relationship probably have a higher chance of having some issues. Doesn't mean he has issues, but there is a greater chance of having them. Love is something that doesn't happen overnight. And it doesn't happen after seeing you 8 times. Have you two done anything physical? I'd just be very hesitant hun. If a guy or girl throws out, I love you, really early in a relationship, it's definitely a red flag. He has some self esteem or relationship issues!
The path of love is the same path of lunacy. When people say they have conversations with GOD, we think they are crazy but tell someone they are not in love the feel it more, only you know if your gut, and I think he likes that booty probably, because no young dude is not ready to settle down yet
LOL. Booty! Well of course. But he's already been engaged once before and told me he's ready to just settle down, marry, and have children. - 2 months ago
WHOA i'm in kinda the same situation execpt my man is 23 and I'm 20 lol well I suck at maths lol and he is just really tall lol but we the same colour kind of? lol. Well all I can say is that your young and naive I KNOW I AM lol. Like speaking from my experience it will be all good now but then there is something that will pop up later... too much to list but you know normal relationship issues it varies. All I can say is its very rare that a guy can keep his word unless he the one. Your relationship will work but you just got to keep at it. The only thing is you've only been together for 1 month or so... After 2-3 see if its still the same then you definitely got solid ground :)
Ok, so we were sleeping together and I believe in the middle of the night he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the lips and said "I love you", but I...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner, drinks and lots of good conversation. We'd talk about our sexuality and what we're looking for. What we've enjoyed and what we want to try. If all goes well we'd go back to her place and experiment.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm honest, sincere, not going to lie to get her into bed, or lie to keep her out of it.