I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now. We have a great connection and talk everyday. We usually just see each other on the weekend. I am almost always the one asking him to do stuff.
We both have very busy work schedules so it does make things a bit harder during the week. We planned dinner last week and he couldn't make it...twice. I decided that I was not going to make myself that available to him and we ended up seeing each other last night after he asked me.
Tonight I asked him if he wanted to go out and he declined once again. Should I stop asking him to do things? Is it because he doesn't want to be with me or simply that he is run down and just wants some time to himself?
Be spontaneous. Find out when he is alone at home, call and then just show up. Give a few minutes notice, and then appear. If you guys have been going out for several months, then I'm sure he will not get too weirded out by you coming over to his place. (at the same time you could invite him over)
If he keeps declining your spontaneous offers, then you might worry that something is not right in the relationship. Keep in touch with him through Email and by calling him. There are ways to pull off a relationship other than constant contact.
There's no such thing as not having enough time or being too busy... you can never be too busy.. with that being said I know he may have a hectic schedule and we all need our personal me time.. but if you can put forth the effort so can he.. I think the fact that you 2 went out last night is cool because he asked ... which meant he wanted to see you and it wasn't one sided.. just don't put all your eggs in this one basket just yet..
I met this guy about two months ago but we just started talking a lot and hanging out a lot the past month or so. He would always message me on aim...
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When: 2 months ago
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