Ok (so for those of you who sorta follow my questions. Yes, it's a new guy. Not guys PLURAL. I'm done with that for awhile. I hope)
But here's the problem. (ill change the names. I still get to be maddie though as my privacy is already non existent. It's all good)
So one day my friend jackie asked me to stay after school for the varsity boys lacrosse game because our practice was canceled. We're friends but not like bffs. Then she also invited matt. (who btw is cute) (& also btw jackie is sorta a slut. & she thinks everyone likes her. Not true) so we all watch the game & matt makes it clear to me that he doesn't like jackie. So I'm like ok whatever.
Because its the first time me & matt have really hung out. But later I told jackie I sorta was starting to like him. He's nice & funny & I don't know just likeable. She just laughed it off & was like ummm yeah me too.
during the next 3 weeks jackie and matt hang out 3 other times but always with other people. & she always invites him. Never the other way around. I asked her if she likes him but she always said no. Multiple times. then matt & me started texting & he admitted to likeing me since the first time we hung out. So I said I liked him too.
Now we're thinking about maybe going out. But jackie is REALLY mad. Like SERIOUSLY. She says that she sorta liked him & that I never asked her. She says that I'm only thinking about myself. But matt isn't the type to lead people on. He hasn't even had a single long (or even medium) relationship. I've tried saying sorry but she just says whatever forget it. Clearly she's upset. What do I do?!
Well if he is making it clear to you that he don't like jackie, its probally because e likes you but doesn't know how to tell you. Jackie sees that you like him so it gets her to want him more and she is trying to get to him before you so you gotta make a move and win. If you really like him otherwise if she gets to him first ur gonna get hurt. Well if he hasn't had a long relationship before that means he just wants sex usually. And she knows she might eventually get to him maybe even at a party when he's is drunk or high. So if you want him you gotta get to him first but play it cool so he doesn't see your intentions too much. Now first ask your self this question. Is it that you really want to be with a guy that can't hold a relationship? Are you driven by your friend trying to get to him first so you wnant him more? Are you ready to get hurt?
Because a guy like that needs a really emotional strong woman that can put him in check, ya know run game on him and keep the upper hand. Because as long as he has the upper hand you will loose. Find a way to get him to chase you. Ohh shit hey go buy these cd's it will make you a master. Its called the art of seduction, that will step your game up dramatically.
No no. He's asked me out a lot. Like matt's liked me since the first time we hung out. Its jackie who can't accept that & is starting problems - 2 months ago
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