I haven't talked to this girl I'm after for 3 years and when I saw her profile on MySpace I had to find out what she's been up to lately. We never dated since at the time she was 17 and I was 23. Another reason why we never dated was because when I did finally ask her out she had just broken up with a guy who cheated on her. I ended our conversations over the phone by telling her that she was too young for me and that I really should move on but the real reason was because I almost had Cancer AGAIN. The Cancer issue is personal so I won't be mentioning what ended up happening to me.
Anyways, for the last few months I have been emailing this girl and calling her up once in awhile since she kept the same phone number. I told her the real reason why I stopped talking to her 3 years ago, not every detail but enough was mentioned.
She is aware that I still have a crush on her and that I have thought about her over the years. Since her profile on MySpace isn't set to private, I am able to see all her top friends. It took me a few days (when I had time) to figure out which one of her friends was closest to her. When I finally figured it out, I emailed this friend of hers and started asking questions about this girl that I am after. Luckily I picked the right friend because she has been more than helpful in helping me out find out more about this girl that I really like.
According to my question. Why do you think this girl is taking so long to respond to my emails and phone messages. She has only called me once but I wasn't in town to answer her. When I called her back and left a message saying why it took so long to call her back, she never responded. Every email that I have sent her still hasn't been replied by her. I know she is in college but I have no idea if she is working. It's been almost a month since she left me that one message on my phone. She said, "Hi Isaiah this is (place name here), I received your message, call me back, my number is (place phone number here). "
The only thing that I can come up with so far is that her past boyfriend cheated on her and she needs more time before she can trust men again. Am I right or is there something else that I haven't figured out yet?
I'm thinking that her friend told her about how you questioned them on myspace. And so as a product of that, your messaging, and you're calling, she knows 100% for sure that you like her. Back off a little man, it's a chase game, you go after her and then you stop. She wonders,"where is he and why isn't he calling or messaging me. " Then she chases you. People always want what they can't have. So don't let her have you. As for the cancer thing I'm really sorry about that and you must be a pretty strong dude after that ordeal. I'm really curious as to what happened and how things ended up or turned out for you, but again since it's personal, I understand.
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