So I have noticed that many guys go for ''easy girls''. Why is that? I mean I know because there is more probability that you will get some action, but wouldn't you rather try for a girl that you are truly interested in?
Haha yeah easy girls are good for fun but not long term. And you're really doing them a favor because they want you. Some of these girls think that they're all that, well fine, feel that way then see if I go after you.
Guys are attracted to 2 kinds of girls. The kind you can identify with, can relate to, can start a family with. Then you have the easy kind. Simple enough?
Easy girls can only satisfy one thing in a man. But a real woman can be satisfy all our needs. See the difference? So when a guy goes for the easy girl, don't get offended. We don't really care about her anyway.
Because sometimes girls put you through too much B. S. There are equal rights now, but very unequal standards in dating. Men are expected to do almost all the work, and be good at it. The thing is most girls think men have to be persistent and work hard to get them during dating, but often times some women don't do the same. It gets very grueling sometimes. Sometimes women expect too much from men or are too hard on them, but men aren't supposed to talk about that (much like how women are repressed not to talk about their sexuality) because society thinks all men should be strong and being man enough to talk about things like that are deemed weak.
You just plainly spelled it out. "Easy girls" are. Easy. We invest so much time and energy into a potential relationship that it would be nice if we can just find somebody who wants to skip all that and get right into the good stuff. So to speak. Seriously if you think about it though, it's the guy who pretty much has to do everything to start a relationship traditionally. The guy has to have enough courage to risk rejection and ask for a girl's number, then call the girl, then ask for a date, and then set up the date making sure he does everything right to impress the girl. All a girl has to do is sit back and take whatever the guy offers either deciding to accept him as relationship potential or not.
So why wouldn't a guy not like to find a girl that is low maintenance and can take most of the pressure off of us?
No no no no. Not all of that's true. You think its easy to be a girl in a relationship. We have to make sure we look good enough for him to stay with us. Some guys are assholes. But if you find a girl your really interested in then it wouldn't be boring and it would not matter because sometimes (most of the time I know from experience) we do most of the work. Especially in marriage. - 2 months ago
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Hah, omg are you serious? Your only rebuttal is that you girls just have to "look good? " Gee, I don't know if anybody could ever pull off an impossible task like that. - 2 months ago
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