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Is it bad to date with 2 guys at the same time?

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Hotgal (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Guys I date with 2 guys. I don't know whose love is true. How can I test it. Is it bad to date with 2 same time?

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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Dont date 2 dudes... that's considered cheating on both of them...
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RFRFRF
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RFRFRF (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Ask them the same questions and see who responds better. Good?
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Question Asker They both don't know each other. I fear if they fight each other if know it. - 3 months ago
Answerer Well I don't mean that. Look for for questions that mean most to you and them the same q with out them knowing about each other and see which ones do a better job answering them. Make sense? - 3 months ago
Question Asker Nice I did it. I love red rose. Once I asked both of them show me a flower for my love. Both did same. The I love Dark blue jeans and black tight T shirt. Once asked them to bring a small gift for my daily use. One brought jeans while other brought T shirt. So I failed again. I love licking most. Once I requested give the best pleasure. Both did same work. again I failed. Can you suggest freaky a new trick? - 3 months ago
Answerer Damn lol. Ask if they could prove their love to you how would you do it? If they could ask you one question what would it be? If they could change one thing about them selfs what would it be? If they could change one thing about you what would it be? If you could do one thing in life what would it be? If you could paint one picture what would it be? If you had 100 million dollars what would you do with it? If you had a son and a daughter show would you wnat to be the oldest? Good>? - 3 months ago
 

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AshleyL
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
It is not bad to date two guys at the same time as long as they both know you are not committed to them. I say you are young, have fun.

If they both thing that they have something serious with you, then you are in the wrong. And if you need to test their love, then maybe you shouldn't be dating both of them, especially when you bring the word love into the mix.

I don't think you need to test it, I think you just need to decide who you care about more and stick with that person.
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alliepallie
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alliepallie (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Pros:
-it's fun and exciting
-your options are open

Cons:
-probably get caught and lose both of them
-it's hard work keeping two guys without them finding out
-if other people find out you will earn yourself a bad reputation
-could get infected with STDs if not careful in the bedroom department
-it's unfair to the two guys, selfish on your part
-you might regret it

So I think all in all, its best to chose one person at a time.
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wildd
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wildd (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well, to date two guys at the same time is basically cheating. Yes. Its bad to date two people at the same damn time. At least for me it is. If you want to know who's love is true. You'll find that out the longer you are with the guy. You can't play them both just to see who's better.

Maybe you should date one guy at a time and learn about them. That's y you would date guys in the first place. Its to see which guy would be THE ONE guy that has the true love for you. Go out with them. At different times. Get to know them. And if they are with you through thick and thin. That one guy has the true love for you.

Goodluck.
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Question Asker Than you. many tests I have made to find out the one who love me most. But both got equal marks. One day I spend hours to study both attitudes. I couldn't separate any one. Only one difference I found is one is more smart in sex, but it may be my feel because he do a lot licking which rise me to heavens. Can you suggest any new test? - 3 months ago
Answerer Lol well. A guy who can give you a good sex is pretty much a keeper. But, does he love you for who you are? I mean. Have you ever wore NO MAKE UP for him so he can see you with out it and still think you look hot (which I m sure you are. ) and maybe you can act totally random and naive with him to see how understanding can he be. I think mainly you should just sit down with the guy one night. And talk about EVERYTHING. Talk about stuff that you mite never talk about and see whos more open. - 3 months ago
Question Asker I have talked with both so many times to find out whom to avoid. But in all tests they won and me failed. Talked as if even good and bad to know if they differ in opinion. But no use. Once I asked if you love to sex me on periods? Both shown higher interests. So tell me what I do? - 3 months ago
Answerer I think you should have them play rock paper scissor with each other and who ever wins can be your "true-love". I'm jk. But, I think you should. Say no to SEX if they want to get their freak on and the one that walks out. Or gets mad at you for saying NO is the wrong guy. The one who stays. And agrees and respects your decision. Is the right guy. - 3 months ago
RFRFRF Thats playing games if you been given it up and then you stop. It makes them feel like you f***in with them. That happen with my x, I mean I stayed with her but I was like I know you want it and its the best you had but you still playing hard to get after we already been together a while and have bumped up our relationship. I mean I got frustrated but dealt with it because I loved her. But she was a liar too much so I had to cut it off. We can smell it sometimes. I don't like games I like straight up. - 3 months ago
Answerer Its true. But the fact that hotgal is already playin' games with them. Sayin' no to sex doesn't really matter anymore.

You shouldnt be with two guys at the same time in the first place just like I said before. And. I feel srry for the guys. Because. You are doin' both of them at the same freakin' time. I'm srry hun. But plz. I think you should just be straight up. - 3 months ago
Question Asker To the worst once I did it. On the middle way when they were ready to put in, I told both of them "sorry I am not in mood'. But so unexpectedly they didn't get angry but was very cool. The longer got up and played himself and pumped to my breast. Shorted asked me if so can I do oral? I said no. He too was did self and pumped to wash basin. Gain I failed. So confused I am. - 3 months ago

LessthanLisa
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
What matters most here is not whose love for you is true but who your love is true for, and I'm thinking neither, because I know with my love being true for my boyfriend, I could never date someone else while dating him. I wouldn't want to hurt him like that.
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Question Asker I am truly confused. I love both of them. But I have to spare one. How can I do it? - 3 months ago
Answerer Do they know about each other? If you're not hiding them from each other, you're doing nothing wrong.

I know it's hard but you just have to figure out who you love more. Who you feel like you wouldn't be able to live without and just hope that you made the right chance. Unfortunately that's what life in general comes down to most of the time - take a chance and good luck with it. - 3 months ago
 
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