You see, there's this guy that is showing some interest in me. He always looks deep into my eyes. Our eye-contact usually last for more that 5 seconds! He sometimes touches me. Like, whenever I do something good, he'll slap me on my arm saying "Well done, amanda! " He sometimes tries to talk to me, but the thing is. I'm so shy & quiet. So I always end up saying a word or two. And the thing is. He isn't giving up. I mean, it just seems that he still wants to become close to me, even though I never talk to him. Being this quiet is a big problem for me, I know. And I'm trying to improve to be more social with people.
Once, he said something to me, but I didn't hear what he was saying, so he yelled at me saying "Why are you like this? Can't you see that I'm trying to get to know you?! I know nothing about you! " Some people say that he was looking for my attention. But I don't know.
I'm getting some mixed signals sometimes. One day he'll talk to me, and the next day it seems as if he's ignoring me. In the last few days, he hasn't even looked at me. So I'm kind of thinking that he has lost interest in me. And after this, I've realized that I'm kind of attracted to him.
You're probably now going to say that h likes me. But when we were in class once, there was this seat available next to me, and he was going to sit there, but then he changed his mind and said out loud "No I don't want to sit here. I'll sit somewhere else" I mean, did he have a problem with me? Or was he trying to prove something to me?
Oh and, let me mention that he isn't shy at all. He's the most outgoing & loud person I've ever met.
So, my question is. Do guys give up easily if the other person isn't showing interest? I mean. Why isn't this guy giving up? I'm obviously ain't talking to him. So why does he try so hard?
he calls me, he acts like an boyfriend, i give him money and he don't change his acts around his friends he always speak no matter who is around.
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(Age:Under 18)
When: 2 months ago
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