I've known this guys for really long time but we just recently started hanging out in December. He acts like he might be interested he came over all the time. He even referred to me as his girlfriend once and calls me cutie. But since it wasn't true,and felt like he was just messing with me it just hurt. I asked him to stop in an e-mail and a while after that he stopped showing up and he won't answer my phone calls. I know I screwed up big time. I want to try and fix it but should I bother? Or, should I just leave him alone? We have a three year age difference and so his dad got on about that but should it matter?
Did you explain to him that you felt hurt because it wasn't true? I'd say lay it all out on the table. Either get together and talk or e-mail. If he doesn't know why you don't want him calling you cutie he could interpret it the wrong way.
Boys can be tricky like this, and yes I mean boys not guys. If he's not returning you're calls because you asked him to stop doing something that made you uncomfortable then that's what he is, a boy. He doesn't respect your feelings or decisions.
In my opinion, the age difference might be playing a factor. If he's living with his dad then the father might be the one laying down the rules. But he only way to know is to talk to him.
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