I dated my best friend's sister, he wasn't thrilled about it which I could understand but he said he was alright with us going out. He was fine for a day but then he started being a real asshole to his sister and to me. I called him a little bitch and he told his sister and started being an even bigger douche bag to both me and her. Her and I talked for about an hour about how it was hurting her and I gave her permission to break up with me since it was hurting her and she did. She then said it wasn't because of her brother but because she saw me more as a friend than a boyfriend even though just that day we had made plans to go out and she said she couldn't wait until she got to see me again. I really cared about her so it hurt a lot but knowing I wasn't causing her any pain made it easier to get over the break up. Even though I still cared for her and still had strong feelings for her I just went about my life.
Then about a month later I heard one of her friends (a guy) talking about how he thinks she was an arrogant bitch and is only friends with her because she's hot. I didn't know what to do since she had been avoiding me making me think she didn't care about me and wouldn't believe what I said. I found a way to anonymously tell her but when she confronted the guy he denied it and she asked who I was. I didn't want to keep it from her since she needed to know and after I told her who I was we talked like actual friends for a while. 1 week later the kid confronts me and we get into a fight with him calling me a liar and then blaming it on his friend for saying that stuff. I tell her about how he confronted me and then she gets really angry at me and calls me a liar so I have people who were there when he said it tell her but she still is acting like she hates me. What did I do wrong?
Update: So my friend talked to her and the reason she said she was mad was because she thought I assumed she should be mad instead of proving to the guy she wasn't an arrogant bitch(still find that weird)She also said she felt really bad for the way she treated me
2 months ago
You didn't do anything wrong. Your only crime was ''trying'' to be a friend to someone you cared 4. Really is this girl or this situation worth it? I mean you did get into a fight over he say , she say. Funny thing is you were telling the truth. However she doesn't believe that and who cares now your getting a glimpse at what going out with her any longer could have meant 4 you DRAMA. You put 2 much into her feelings sorry to say. Maybe its time you start putting just as much into yours!
The thing is I know that I should be focused more on me like you said but no matter what I do I can't stop caring about her. I was the first boyfriend she said actually mattered to her and she opened up and told me stuff even her closest friends don't know. I'm just wondering if maybe the fact that she broke up with me and I mattered to her is why she is acting this way. She talks about me with her friends although I don't know what she is saying and I catch her looking at me daily. What does that mean? - 2 months ago
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Maybe she still cares about you. Or maybe it was all a game , only she knows. What do you think? - 2 months ago
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Honestly I don't know what to think, because I still care about her I'm optimistic that she still has feelings for me, but I'm not even sure she knows what she is feeling right now. - 2 months ago
Sometimes you do nothing wrong and stupid stuff like this happens I would say screw those people and move on. , build yourself bigger and better and smarter than all them so they will want to be you friend again then laugh and say peace! Lol. Good?
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