So me and my guy friend or classmate, however you want to call it, has been really nice to me lately. Because before I had told him I liked him in a text message and he Imed me once I got Aim, saying that what do I like about him, and I couldn't answer that because my answer would be too cheesy. And my friends knew I liked him so they would ask me if he responded to me yet, so like if he said he likes me too or if he rejected me. I began to get frustrated and somehow it grew into hate, so everyday (I'm in patrol) I see him walking pass my post to get to his post, and he would try to talk to me, I would just pretend not to hear him or mess around with my Mp3. And just a day ago, I finally talked to him on Aim and he asked me why I was ignoring him, and I replied saying that "I was mad at you and somehow it grew into hate" then he said that it was weird trying or talking to me because I wouldn't answer him or listen to him. And I did feel bad so I said that I was sorry, and for him to forgive me, and all he did was lol-ed because he didn't know why I was apologizing for, and I said that because I felt bad that I was ignoring him. Then I got 'pretend mad' and he said that if I did that, how was I going to get his forgiveness. Then the next day at after school patrol, I saw him and when he was close to me, I reached out and slapped him, softly! And he was asking me -madly, I guess, why I did that, and I turned around in the middle of the road to face him and just smiled and turned back to continue walking back to my school. Then today during morning post, I was kinda ignoring him but he was stand next to me while his two other friends were kinda finishing the circle we made and one of them started talking about graphic things, and I was messing with my Mp3, but with one earphone out so I could hear what he was talking about. And I just ignored it but when he continued to keep talking like that, the guy I like, he put his hand toward my ear so to cover and not listen to what his other friend was talking about. And when he put his hand to cover my ear, I was doing that too and so our hands touched. Then I think he took his hand back, stayed for a few seconds and took his friend with him to walk with him to post.
So what I want to know is, What is he trying to say to me?! Because after the text I sent him, he was all silent to me then he was being all nice to me again. I'm lost and need some help. Guys? Girls? Help?!
P. S- So Sorry for writing a book! I just thought you people would need details and such.
Ummm. You are aware that you are sending mixed signals as well, I assume.
He is reflecting what you are doing to him, it sounds as if you both are really into one another, but really have no idea what you are doing. He is just playing off of what you do, and you are playing off of what he does. Both of you are too nervous right now to really do anything beyond give mixed signals.
If you keep refraining from communication, and getting, as you put it "pretend mad," slapping him, and still flirting with him, you are going to get the same back at you. That's all there is to it. If you are looking for something more, don't be afraid to begin to open up to him and be genuine with him, not this front of confusion that you have succeeded in putting up.
IF you want something to come from this, you need to change how you act, don't expect him to. He is a guy, and probably will, like most of us, refrain from change as long as possible.
Just be honest. You are very young. Ask him if something is bothering him. At this age tho you will probably get a dishonest answer because he will be scared and confused. I'm sure you are a little scared and confused as well.
Just remember if you like some one treat them the way you want to be treated. Be yourself. Don't hide or hold back anything because that will make you feel bad. You will constantly think about things.
Analyze his actions and listen to his words. Is he treating you the way you want a boyfriend to treat you? If not move on to someone else. Its a little more difficult because you are in grade school and you will see him everyday, but trust me once you get a little older you will understand exactly what I'm talking about. :)
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On a first date we go and grab a coffee in a shop and talk about stuff we like, and then based upon mutual interests plan an outing then and there. Clothing should be normal, plain enough for every day to set a standard of how things are. Plus, whatever you go out and do, you should be willing to do it in those clothes, so suede isn't the best if you say you're going to the zoo.
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