My guy likes to flirt, should I trust him?

Sacrifices are made for those that you love! In this case, if he truly loves you, he needs to realize how much he's painfully hurting you and he should not want to see you hurt.

I think that anyone who is in a committed relationship should stop playing with other peoples hearts especially the one they are currently committed to.

I've read countless answers that say that women flirt for fun and it really doesn't mean anything. I've been flirted on by a 21 year old engaged woman.

You need to tell him that hurts you when he flirts with other women even if he says he loves you. If he truly does love you, he shouldn't be wanting to flirt anyway with other girls. You''re absolutely right, anything can happen as a result of flirting. That's how relationships and marriages break up, usually by some innocent flirting that starts out small and then increases. If he doesn't listen, then so sorry to tell you but he's not the man for you cause he's not putting your feelings above his own and sooner or later he'll be on his way out. If he truly loves you, your concerns should mean the utmost to him over everything else. . If you do stay together and get married, your marriage will be hell and do you want that? Don't think he'll change because if he won't now it will only get worst. Why are you afraid of hesitating to offend a man who says he loves you but in his actions he doesn't? He needs to get his actions in line with his talking before you trust him. Just tell him to stop and if he refuses then you're much better off just leaving him than letting a marriage turn to hell for you which is surely will. You deserve much better!

Ok, I am a serious flirt. But if I was with a guy who was bothered by my actions, I would have enough respect for him and our relationship to tone it down considerably. Flirting has nothing to do with being a man, that's bull.

I would re-evaluate the relationship if he doesn't seem to care about his actions and how they negatively affect you. Actions speak louder than words, keep that in mind. And flirting can be a gateway to something more, like all out cheating.

I bet if you flirted in his face with dudes all of the time, he would flip. You can't control anyone's actions but your own.

Ok, so you have a jealousy issue that you need to work on, he says he loves you, offered marriage, what happened with that? Any how I think this is your problem, not his, he's flirting which is harmless to some people, and obviously not for you, there is no guarantee's in life and just because he flirts doesn't mean he will cheat, is that what you do? Does he do anything else wrong? I mean if this is all he does count your blessings. You need to not be so jealous, and yes if your gonna be with him you should trust him, if you don't then just move on. Anything can happen any day and it does not have to involve flirting, your not gonna be able to be with him 24/7 and watch him so you need to trust him, trust the relationship. Get over YOUR insecurities and YOUR problems with trust, before you push him away, I mean the guy asked you to marry him. GROW UP!

You can't stop guys from doing what they do best. Flirting! Even if you talk to him, every guy flirts even though they may just be being nice! Every guy flirts, so maybe you could cut him a little slack but when it starts to get really bad flirting, say 'hey, that's MY man! "