One of the only reasons I am holding onto the piece of shi* boyfriend I have now is because I don't think there are any better guys out there. Please prove me wrong.
There are, we are rare and sometimes go unnoticed. have you tried a close friend? That one guy who is there for you when those P. O. S guys you go out with treat you bad? myself , I could be a mommas boy and I know I would never hit a girl just because I got mad. That's just wrong.
There are. And we're mostly single, too, because we won't go with "bad" girls.
It's a common theme that there are a lot of bad guys out there and a few gems in the rough, but take it from a good guy like me: it's just as bad for us to find good girls. A friend of mine once said out of the 12 girls he's ever been in a serious relationship with, maybe 2 of them had any real potential to be good girlfriends; the rest were the female equivalent of the stereotypical male "players".
And I've been in your situation too, I've held on to girls who treated me like shit because I didn't feel like there was anybody better for me. I mean I know how it feels to date person after person and have them all be bad people and eventually giving up and just sticking around with one of them.
Right now I'm back to being single, and yes, it kind of sucks. It's lonely. All my friends are in serious relationships so unless I have a girlfriend to double or triple date with I'm mostly left out. But it's worth it. You're worth it. You do not deserve to be with someone who treats you bad, and once the pain of the breakup wears off, it's liberating.
Plus, being single opens you up to new relationships. Generally speaking, you're probably going to find it difficult to find "good" guys while you're still with someone else because most good guys won't enable someone to cheat or be put in the situation where they're the #2, the affair, the fling, or whatever. I know I can't let myself become attached to someone if I'm not their #1 guy. So there's another reason to leave a bad relationship.
You are right. I think maybe I shouldnt go looking for mr. right. Maybe he will find me!!! :) - 7 days ago
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When: 10 days ago
YES there are! There are genuinely good men and you don't even have to look that far to find him. Do you have a guy friend you talk to who actually pays attention and respects you? Odds are you do and maybe don't even realize it but when you do realize, you found your genuinely good man!
Better meaning. Doesn't call me a slut bitch and cunt whore every time he is mad. Which I am neither considering I have been faithful to him for 5 years. Also doesn't smack me if I say something he doesn't want to hear! - 10 days ago
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There are definitely way better guys out there then that. Guys that will make you feel loved, and feel protected. I get it a lot from my FWB. She always says she feels protected when I hug her, and loved at the same time. - 10 days ago
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That is sweet - 10 days ago
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Thanks, so yeah. There are better guys. Just have to find the ones that don't put on a front. One that won't show you a good time, then change around when your together. - 10 days ago
Is that a dig at me? Or are you just generalizing? - 10 days ago
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Both, really. My suggestion would be that if you're hoping to find a "good man" (presumably someone who would pay attention to detail, among other things), then you may want to pay attention to detail yourself. - 10 days ago
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What do you mean detail? Are you talking about me spelling? Lol - 10 days ago
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I meant my! - 10 days ago
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It was a generalization. There are plenty of good guys out there. Or at least better than "piece of sh*t" guys. I'd say drop him if that's how you feel about him. - 10 days ago
Yeah. There is, and the sucky thing is. Most of the shitty ones act like their good in the beginning. Hopefully you can tell a good one by seeing one, most of them do end up single or looked over because they are genuinely nice. I have a good one. When I say good though I don't mean perfect. No man is perfect for sure. But he is perfect for me, and a genuinely good guy. Good luck.
Well I know this guy that tells me amazing things and he's only my friend but he's not that good looking but the way he treats me is just amazing but...
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
My style is usually casual and chic. I have nice legs so I normally show them off with shorts but not too short, just above the knees with a nice blouse or tank top. I love accessories especially necklaces so one will be hanging around my neck each time.
I also like to match what I wear to my shoes and bags so either will be the same color as my tank top or shorts.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
My hair is just above my chin and is straight because I just had it straighten. I don't do my hair much just let is fall naturally because I like it the way it is.
My makeup is just the basics, light foundation, blusher, eyeliner, mascara, eyebrow pencil and lip gloss.
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