(sorry for all the writing errors, my English is not so good, I mainly speak spanish)
I really need advice.
I'm new at school, and now its cool that I have lots of friends and everything. but I met this guy a couple days ago, I already like him a lot. But the problem is, that the day after we met, he asked me to go out with him, I was supposed to say "no", because we don't know each other well, but I was sooo nervous and excited, that I said "sure! " instead. He kissed me. Later that day, some girls went to me to ask if I was dating him, I said yes. They told me that he is definitely not the guy id like to be with, because "he uses girls" (he broke up with a girl, because she didn't gave him enough sex), there are a lot of girls that like him, that he's kinda drugy, and few stuff that they said (they know that because a couple of friends of them, have dated him) I still don't know if that's true.
after that class, I saw him, and said: "ive heard really bad rumors about you, that you use girls, and those kind of stuff. Really, stay away from me" he said "WHAAT?! " and stayed all frozen and surprised.
i felt really bad after that. I felt depressed for the rest of the day. Then, I told one friend of mine,to talk to him. The other day, I saw my friend talking with him, so I approached, they said he have never done those kind of stuff, and that those girls that said all that to me, are just girls that want to harm me. I acted as if I believed, but really, I don't believe anyone. I don't know WHO to believe, because I'm new at that school, and I can't really trust anyone. after that,he asked if I wanted to date him again. I didn't said either yes or no, I just said that we have to get to know each other more, he said: "i agree, I totally agree with you".
I still don't know what to do. How can I get to know him? , and all that stuff, after all that happened?.
im really confused, I'm going to wait if he calls me sometime, if he doesn't, I think that means that he's not really interested in getting to know me. Correct me if its not true.
I REALLY REALLY REALLY need advice. please help me, help me! [again, sorry about the errors. ]
Don't worry about making a few errors. You write much better in English than I can in Spanish. :-) As far as your guy situation, I think you did the right thing in telling him you need to get to know him better before you can date him. It's just generally better to have at least some knowledge of any guy before you agree to date him. If he doesn't want to take the time to get to know you that's his problem and may mean that some of the rumors about him are true.
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