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Why won't they just leave us alone?

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jasmin3 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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Me and my boyfriend decided to take things slow and all my friends are trying to push us together and we have told them to stop but they won't. If we start talking my friends will say that were boring and we need to kiss and all that crap and its starting to make me mad. How can I make them to stop because he is getting upset too

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RickyJ (Age:36 to 45)      When: A month ago
If you care 4 each other then that's what matters not what ur so called friends think should happen.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Friends can ruin relationships by forcing the couple into fast gear. It happened to me. >. <. But you should confront your friends, tell them that it's YOUR relationship and you'll do whatever you want to do in it. If they wanted some kissing or anything then they should find their own significant other.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well, for starters, tell them to mind their own business. It's you're relationship with this guy, NOT THEIRS. So go tell them to get a hobby or something. Don't let them pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do (and trust me, if you can resist peer pressure even just a little, it goes a long way). Though, if you're friends are trying to make you do things you don't want to do, then why are you friends with them? They obviously don't care about you're privacy. Sadly, I have friends like this, and my best advice is to listen to what you think is right. If they get on you're case again, you can ask them to stop, but if that doesn't work, then just get up and go somewhere with you're boyfriend.

The two of you can have a private evening together just watching a movie, get ice cream, go for a walk or continue you're conversations. Though, if you are feeling bad about it or feel awkward because of you're friends and not doing what they're doing, it's cause you and your boyfriend are much more mature. Oh, and if you do react to what they say, they'll probably keep on doing it, so if you do respond, don't make a big deal out of it, or don't say anything at all. I hope this helped!!!
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maureen (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
Stay away from you friends when you are with your boyfriend then.
it seems simple enough
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Ok, I know this might sound sort of rude, but if your friends are pressuring you to do something you don't want to do, then are they really your friends? It's your decision on how you want to take your relationship, and frankly its none of their business! I would just tell them to back of and leave you alone when it comes to your relationships and you ill do what you want to do when you are both ready. They may just want you to be happy and may think that you want to take it faster and he is holding you back and they think they are helping you, but just tell them how you feel. If they aren't your friends anymore because of it, then they aren't really your friends. I know this might sound rude, but I'm serious.
Hope this helped and wasn't too rude!
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