Ive been seeing this guy for NEARLY 4 months. We are not a couple (although he wanted to be one 2 months ago but I kinda freaked out about it. ) we DO act like one.
We've done everything and as much as we do like each other the "exciting new" liking each other is gone? Its kinda just EXPECTED that we will kiss and do whatever else there's no "oh will we won't we". Except we are not a couple so I don't see why this has happened? Any idea how to freshen things up a bit and lose the predictability of our relationship? Id like to be a bit more of tease again the way I used to be any tips to help me out IN the bedroom AND outside the bedroom? Thanks ;) xxxxxx
In case you're wondering I'm 17 so its all legal where I live haha :)
Lol I was wondering how old you are. Do something different for a date. Forget the typical dinner or movie. Try put put, bowling, walking in the park. I don't know where you live but its getting so warm and pretty outside. Go hiking and plan a picnic. As for intimacy I'm not condoning a minor have sex but little things you can do include nibbling on his ear. Sit on his lap and kiss his nose. Wear something cute like a costume and give him a lap dance. Get together with his mom and when we comes home cook him dinner. This will spark something in him as well and b4 you know it you'll be acting giddy like everything is brand new agian.
Wow, you're predictable after just 4 months. I think it took me and my fiance about a year before we were that settled and comfortable with each other and that predictable. I think at your age too things get old more quickly. When I was your age, I had a short attention span for guys and often dated many for only a couple of months.
I don't see any major issues here with your situation. If you want to spice things up, try new things, go new places and have an adventure together. Try new things in the bedroom, whatever works for you guys.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'm an outdoors man and so it's important to me that my gal enjoy that too. The ideal date for me is to go on a hike in the mountains and then enjoy a romantic lunch with some cool wine.
I would dress for the hike.
The date ends with us making out a little... and maybe taking in the stars together.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm sweet and caring, the kind of guy who wants to connect with a woman and have a great relationship together.