He broke up with me a few months ago and I truly love him. He has a huge ego and thinks he can get any girl although he's been denied time after time. He even tells me he is lonely sometimes and asks me to hangout with him. We have such an AMAZING time together, only bad thing is, is that he wants to have sex still so sometimes we do. He just keeps telling me afterwards that there is a chance we'll date in the future, but not for a while, as he wants to be single and not have to worry about having a girlfriend he will text me to hangout, but when he is with his friends it is like I don't exist to him and he doesn't want me to talk to him because he thinks other girls will think me and him are still together. Anyways,
What is the best thing I can do? And please don't say move on, because eventually if I don't get him back I will move on, but only with time. I've tried.
Should I completely ignore him, not call/text/talk to him when I see him at all? Or should I casually keep talkign to him, maybe text him once or twice a week and say hey to him when I see him? Or keep trying to hangout with him and make things better between us? I don't want to push him any further away. But I love him so much and would do anything to get him back. We dated for over 2 years
Being broke up and having him say no dating until in the future should mean no sex with this guy. Don't give in just because he wants it. He doesn't care to be bothered with you except for that. He's worried about what other girls will think, which means he's not caring about the future with you as much as them. He has no reason to do anything different to make it better, because he can't have it any better than sex with no strings attached. Hanging out another minute won't make anything better for either of you. You'll never have him back if you don't make him choose.
Yeah honestly I'd have to say take the time to get over him. I know it's hard but it definitely seems like he's using you. I've been in a situation like this only I was with a guy who was doing the same thing yours is, sleeping with his ex and promising he'd date her again then just ignoring her because of the possibility of other girls. Unfortunately there's a pretty good chance that this guy could be doing the same thing to you. If not, great, but still, if he really cared about you he wouldn't just ask you to hang out with him when he's lonely and doesn't have anyone else, he'd want to be with you all the time.
Maybe he sees you as the girl that will always be there for him when he's lonely. I know I've been that girl/ still am that girl. The best advice I have for you is to not contact him unless he contacts you and take a break from seeing him or talking to him and certainly fooling around with him for a long while. AT LEAST over a month. Who knows. Maybe he will realize that he misses you a lot and needs you.
I know you don't want to ear it ,but here it goes MOVE ON. Which would you rather I do tell you what you want to hear or what you need to know? I assume ur not desperate so let your actions and your words speak volumes. This guy cares toooo much about other girls to even consider what this whole situation is doing to you. It seems as if you have already put your eggs into this one basket trust me that's NEVER the smart thing to do. Leave this guy alone and allow him to trip on his over sized ego by his self. He may come back after he realizes the grass is not greener ,but really is he worth that. You want to be with someone who sees how special you are now not later. Be smart. . . Don't be that girl. . Don't be his girl.
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