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How do I talk to him???

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GreenDogg6 (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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I have a problem: there's only like 2 months of school left. I'm a girl in high school on my last year and just at the end of April I began to develop serious feelings for a boy in one of my classes. There's no way I could ever ask him out, I'm way too shy and I only have a few friends, unlike him who's kind of popular and more outgoing. I think its possible he might like me too cause he stares at me sometimes, comes really close etc even though other times he's really distant. I know I'm hot so that's not the problem but I've never talked to him before, ever. How can I find out if he likes me too? And how can I talk to him and drop hints without being completely obvious? I'm dieing for him to ask me out, especially before it's too late because school will be done for good for us.

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If you know your hot then he probably does too, especially if he stares at you in class. Talk to him and after you have talked to him a couple of times say something like I'm sorry for interrupting but you have pretty eyes or nice arms or something. Believe it or not I like it when girls compliment me on my eyes even if I am kind of a jock. It will let him know your interested and even if he isn't he is going to take a compliment. Regret hurts worse than rejection so just talk to him and considering your hot he is likely to ask you out if your nice.
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heatherlovesyou (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Ask him for his number and you can keep in touch after school ends and maybe hang out during the summer its a win win.
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Lovin-laughter (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
You should try and ask him about the class first. I know that probably is one of the oldest or most commonly used examples to start a conversation but it's the easiest way to get comfortable with each other the fastest. Then after a few days you can start talking to him about other things. Show him that you interested by smiling while he's talking. I know that sounds lame but it shows that you have some feelings for him. Soon enough he'll ask you out.
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frafragomer (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
The way I see. You have two choices. You could actually talk to this guy, see who he is and what he's about. OR, You don't talk to him, and you spend a great deal of time, just wondering what could've been. Step up, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and go talk to the guy! Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? And what's the greatest thing that could happen? What outcome outweighs the other? Just do it.
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confuzzledteen08 (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
I think you should ask him out before it's too late you never know he may love you. And if he doesn't well there's plenty of other fish in the sea. Don't just drop hints tell him straight up that you have very strong feelings for him b. C most guys don't get those hints so just try it out and see where things go=]
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Peaches-doll (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
I used to be really shy too, I know it's hard. But the best thing to do to get over it is to push yourself into an uneasy spot. When you do that, you'll find the second time around it becomes easy. What also helps is to boost you're self esteem. Do thing that make you really happy. Trust me. Try it, and don't be scared.

Well, if you see him ever stare at you again look back at him, but not for too long, we don't want to stare a hole in his head do we? Lol Then, smile at him and look away. Sneak a side glance and see how he reacted. Is he still looking? Did he smile? If he's still looking give him another look except this time look away quickly and smile.
You don't have to worry about looks, if he does seem to like you, he'll care more about the person you are inside.
His body language can say alot, without him even saying a word. If he seems to stare at you a lot and keeps the gaze he's interested. If he's shy he might play with his hair, or look at the ground when you walk by. If he's talking to his friends do his shoulders seem to point toward you? Guys do that without knowing it when they are interested in a girl.

If you want to talk to him, ask him if he could help you out with either homework, or studying for a test in the class you both have. Once again, DO NOT be scared. It seems hard, I know, but once you speak to him, it'll get easier. Try smiling at him and while he helps you with the work, a subtle touch on his shoulder, and play with your hair. These are all ways to flirt. When you do become a little more comfortable with him, break the ice by trying to make him laugh, maybe something funny happened to you.
Because it's your last year, after you start to talk to him, you may want to ask for his email so you can still keep in touch. You will have to wait a while until her asks you out. But before long, he might ask YOU out.
Hope I helped.
remember, don't worry. Nothing bad will happen. You can do it!
Good luck! :)
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