I'm 21 year old guy, known this girl for only about 2 months, met at the gym, only hung out wit her 4 times outside of the gym(she was the one who asked me to hang every time except the last time) so the last time we hung out, I asked her how she felt about me, she said she thought I was a nice guy, fun guy blah blah but she thought it was understood that we were just friends and that she doesn't feel that "connection, at least not yet" so I told her I'm interested in her and that basically its kind of a waste of time if she doesn't see this going anywhere. So I figured the next week or two she would lay low and not talk to me so much, BUT NOPE, OTHER WAY AROUND. She talks to me ALMOST every day, and then this past week she texted me or Imed me Tuesday-Friday asking me what's up/ what I ate for dinner/if I'm going to the gym, etc. (I hardly ever contact her first) yet she never ASKS me to hang out with her. Do you think she is POSSIBLY starting to see me in a diff light and is just scared? And should I ask her to chill again soon? and I haven't asked her to hang out at all in the past month except last saturday night I asked her if her and her friend wanted to meet me and my friend at applebees and she was like "i would, but I'm in my pajamas and I'm studying, and I can't eat anything cause I gotta get blood work done tomorrow"
Ok you said she used to ask you to hang out every time but once. Now even though she calls you all the time she doesn't ask you to hang out. Shady. I don't know. Maybe she's playing with your head or now that she knows you like her wants to hang onto that.
There is nothing wrong with being friends for a while. Or for that matter, friends in general. It is wise to get to know someone first before wanting to jump into bed with her. Ultimatums are not good.
Well I'm in a situation kind of like yours I'm going to just be friends. There are so many benefits to friends first. First of all if you become her best friend first you will know her inside and out, you will know what her weaknesses her strengths. You will know what she likes and dislikes. You really will understand her for who she is. It is easier to hit it off as friends first besides the pressure isn't there for instance the sexual drive which can destroy relationships. So if you really like this girl I would get to know her as a friend first besides it helps in the long run.
Dude play it by ear, and if she wants to hang out again she'll call and ask you, but mostly she's texting and I'ming you to see how you react since she knows how you feel if she feels anything she'll get you out of the friend zone, cause she's the only one(i learned that the hard way)that can do that so just chill back relax, keep talking with her but when you get a shot date other chicks, you are not attached to her right? So date and have fun, but if she likes you like you do her and date other ones be careful if she does find out so, once again play it by ear.
You need to understand what kind of girl she is when it comes to love relationship, there's girls which even he know that person likes her, she can still be normal with him. I think they are open minded girl(not sure) but anyway if she's one of them girls then you might be a bit overreacted. Give this time and ask her to hung out and see if she will, maybe her feelings for you will grow.
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