Fight with my boyfriend, what do I do?

I say break up with him, you gave him trust he broke it and said your the one who didn't trust him. He sounds like a player to me, an assh*le one too, since your independent I say look for someone who actually cares about you. If he does love you he will chase you(Don't change your mind and forgive him straight away if he does chase, make him wait a bit so then you can see if he's just saying sweet things to keep you around him or actually love you), until then he's not worth your time.

You need to me more assertive with this guy, you caught him doing something that totally questions your trust in him, and he turned it around on you and is saying "oh I can't believe you don't trust me. " If you just like him a lot and don't love him or anything then dump his ass, you're still young and will probably meet more guys that'll treat you better. The fact he tried to turn it around on you is proof he's playing you and waiting for you to put out. I was in high school once and I know game when I see it. SO move on, and if he really likes you then he'll make an attempt to get back with you. Hope this helps!

To put your life in perspective----most likely you're in high school; in a year or 2 years, you might be going to college; and maybe your boyfriend will do the same; by then he will meet plenty of other girls, he will sleep with plenty of other girls, and I'm sure that by then plenty of other guys will be after you, and this boyfriend of yours now, will be nothing more than a pathetic high school memory. Of course, now you think is a do or die situation, so to be fair, I'll tell you that guys who are your boyfriend's age, just want to f&c!. There might one exception out there, but I'm willing to bet your boyfriend is no exception. So if another girl comes along and is willing to give it up, and you're not willing to give it up, do you want to guess what's going to happen? Either you're going to feel pressure to give it up believing that if you do, then your boyfriend will stick around, or mr boyfriend will say that he can't wait for you to decide to give it up ,when in fact, other girls are out there willing to give it up. As you can see either way you will lose because if you give it up, your boyfriend will eventually get tired of you, and go on to conquer other girls. If you don't believe me, just go ahead and try it, and let me know how it goes. So the only way you come ahead is as your gut tells you, break up with him.

By the way, given that you're worried that by breaking up with this jerk will make you look bad, instead of being proud that you are an independent gal, and that you're not gonna give in to a guy's manipulative whimsical behavior, only points out that you're not so independent as you think you are. Which again, only proves that as much as you believe you know it all now, you don't really know that much. Good luck.

Ugh, break up with him!
He might like attention and what not but he has a girlfriend and he is not showing you the respect you deserve! If he would rather be sleeping around with these girls of questionable morale, then let him. That is what he deserves. You, on the other hand, deserve much better!

He might be acting like this because you're not having sex. Not that it makes it right, it's a terrible thing to do, but I wonder if he's as okay with waiting as he says he is?

Don't make the same mistake I made - trusting or loving someone too much that you don't listen to your own gut instincts. Yes, you love him, but you need to look at reality and what is really going on. He has already done things that have caused you to not trust him. When a guy acts like your guy has been acting, he is actually trying to get caught cheating on you so you will break up with him. It means that he wants his freedom and is not really wanting to settle down in a relationship at this time. He wants to go out and have sex with whomever he wants to with no strings attached, but he wants you to stay at home and baby him and be his mommy. You are too young to get yourself wrapped up in a messed up relationship with a guy like this. I hope that you will stand up and have some respect for yourself and not stay with a jerk like this dude. I went through the exact same situation with a guy in the past and ended up feeling sorry for him and marrying him because he lied to me over and over again in order to keep me in the relationship. He used to get very angry when I would catch him with other women and accused me many times of not trusting him. The truth is that he was not doing things to earn my trust. He was doing things to break my trust. I hope you will get wise and dump this dude before you get sucked in any farther! There are so many decent guys out there - you can do so much better!