It could be that they don't commit because they think the women will give it up to anyone else who makes an effort to get into her pants. Why commit to someone who is just going to run around having sex?
Consider where you are finding these guys too. The bar scene doesn't work too well for the majority of people.
I am not talking about cheating. I am talking about when men and woman meet, woman think nothing of giving it up on a first date or quickly. The problem is we create intimacy before we get to know one another. Woman take it as a sign that this guy must really like me and very quickly she finds out that yes, he like sleeping with me but he is not interested in being my exclusive boyfriend. I myself do not go to bars and I am in a committed relationship but this has happen to me a few years back. - 6 months ago
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Well I haven't lived in other centuries, but you could assume that whenever women "give it up" there will be guys waiting and willing to take them up on the offer; it isn't just a problem in today's society. - 6 months ago
Absolutely and it wasn't about what I thought, I just threw the question out there. I am almost 43 years old. Of course I know it is true. Just wanted to see what other's opinions where. I often hear a lot of young woman, including what I read on this site. Gee I thought he liked me but.! Thought I would give these young woman something to think about.! Have a great day. - 6 months ago
I disagree. I think women are becoming less and less committal because its acceptable for them to have sex more freely now. Men were no more committal 50 years ago as they are today, yes they may have been more married men, but they weren't committed to their wives. Now women don't have to put up with cheating.
I don't think this is gender specific. My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship. Neither of us are sleeping with other people, we just like the fact that we have no rules.
I don't think it's any more common today than it was in the past.
Adding, it's just that people are a bit more open about it nowadays. - 6 months ago
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It seems to me that more and more woman are complaining that the person they are dating often cut off spending time with them but find time to call them for a booty call. I am certainly not against open relationships if both people are in agreement. - 6 months ago
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I've noticed the same of men though. I hear a lot of men complaining about girls cheating on them. - 6 months ago
Are you saying that they should be able to have their cake and eat it too, or that things are that way unfortunately? Cause if you are saying that they can have their cake and eat it too, I definitely disagree.
And yes, men are less committal because there are so many skeezers running around.
No I am not saying men should have their cake and eat it too. I am saying that they are less and less committal because woman allow them to have their cake and eat it too by giving it away so freely. - 6 months ago
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