So he was acting kinda stupid with me "same poll guy" I asked him to hang out and he said "I'm with friends sorry" so that was pretty mean and in rage attack I erased him from my myspace and blocked him from msn. He hasn't done nothing about it. I expected him to at least send me a message and/or call me but he hasn't. Obviously he's mad or he doesn't care anymore what should I do? Do I call him? Do I send him a friend request again? help!!!!!!
I don't know how ur relationship with this guy is but I would say maybe you need to leave a message explaining that you want to talk. If he's sincere and mature about it, then he'll call back, if not, then I wouldn't waste my time
Well, actually, guys may be slow, but they're not stupid. You sent a pretty clear "don't want to talk to you" vibe. So I think you'll have to open contact again.
I know, I know I really over reacted, and when I thought back it was already late. I had erased him and blocked him, but don't you think he sent a pretty clear message too "i don't wanna see u" in other words of course. What if start the contact again and he thinks I'm all obsessed w/him. Before I was trying to keep it cool, and I don't wanna get hurt. - A month ago
Well, since your relationship with each other appears to be mostly online, send a friend request. It is the netiquittely correct way of saying "sorry" after blaming someone.
He may still care, and he may not be mad. Often times, when the communication is all online, it can get intimidating to try communicating with someone who has blamed you in the past. He may have simply given up hope. This is not entirely bad, by even sending a friend request, you open up a slight source of dialog.
The thing is, message him, and apologize, and see what happens. After you blame him, he has no initiative to try to restart communication.
Thanx for ur answer, and no is not mostly online, we went out like a few times, but yeah all this drama was through myspace because I noticed that he wasn't giving me the attention he used 2 before. My question now is do you think I should wait a lil more, it's been like 5 days since this happened & he hasn't even tried 2 reach me, I have no problem apologizing but how do I know if he'll think I'm the kinda girl who is all obsessed w/him, since I asked him out that day & now I'm apologizing 2 him - A month ago
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5 Days is just right, do it now or you will miss your window. - A month ago
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