A little control...Any ideas?

Yes, to establish that early in a possible relationship, just make him be the one to do everything. The calling, the paying, etc. That way, he'll know from early on that he has to be the one to make things happen, instead of having it handed to him.

First find a guy that you like, then whenever you talk to him act real subtle and don't give anything, act sort of like a tease, but not too much. Make him feel like he has to chase you and that it won't be easy to get you. Guys don't go for easy when they want a relationship, they want someone they can relate to and can just chill with kind of like a best friend that they want to kiss and hug and love. Don't act too needy either just give it time.

If a girl wants to get a little (or a lot of) control over a guy in a relationship, there are proven ways to do that.