My Friend is Lying To Me.... Badly!

I know I had a friend who did the same type of thing, except he knew it wasn't true, but sorely wished it could be. It was sad. Hanging out with him made me so much more confident in myself, almost at his expense.

I don't know, but I'm not sure whether you should play along, or break this girl's illusion and get her to do something about the fact that she doesn't get guys. Playing along might give her a weird demented confidence of sorts, but it'd be false, and the faster you get her to realize that, the better. (My friend had confidence in video games and when he portrayed himself in comics, which was the same sort of thing, and didn't lend itself well to real life.)

I'd play along, and then when you can, try to get over to her house when they're texting, and then when she goes to the bathroom or something take her phone and check for the texts. If they're there, then...well... I guess just laugh at yourself, and if they're not, she couldn't have deleted them if they're so in love right? Fool proof, kinda.

Oh for god sake show her sympathy. It's obvious she's lonely and insecure and needs to make up a fantasy world. Reality must be so harsh for her that she needs to live in this fantasy. Show compassion and mercy and just go along with her.

The problem is.. your accusing her of lying. You don't know for sure. And talking crap on her is what I consider back-stabbing.. not much of friend if you ask me. Confront her about what happened. Tell her you want to meet the guy and that if you don't then you have no choice but to stop trusting her. She will either confess or she will show you the guy.. even if he isn't exactly what you expected though.. maybe in her eyes he is gorgeous. So if you meet him and think he's a pig.. keep in mind people have different opinions.

She's definitely jealous of you and is very insecure. Like the last person, play along and ask her a lot of very specific questions. You can't just assume that she's lying. You need real proof. When you ask her a lot of questions, she might stumble on some of them, indicating to you that she a liar. Also, try to check her phone to see if those texts are really there... but if they aren't do not just scream it into her face. Talk to her quietly about it. Ask her why she did it. Maybe it's because of he acne. Maybe try to help her lose some of the weight. You are her friend after all.

Ohh that's good. Yeah tell her to invite him over! LOL

Ha, wow. This is kind of funny. If it were me I would try to dig in and truly find out that these guys are fake. Who knows, maybe she isn't lying (doubt it). Tell her to invite her "lover" over or something to see how she acts in that situation. Maybe she will eventually spill her guts out and tell you the truth.