I really care about a guy that says he loves me. I'm only 18 and I don't know if I love him or not, that's one problem. The HUGE problem is he's been living with his girlfriend for a few months now and they've been dating for about 8. Right now he doesn't drive and his family lives in another town. He recently told me that he loves me and he can never stop thinking about me. He doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend but he'd rather be with me. He tells me that he cares about her because they've known each other for a long time. He doesn't know where to live even is he does leave her and there's no way my family would let him live with us. I care about him so much and he's the only guy that's ever made me feel this way but...should I forget about him? I'm really lost.
ms610172
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Yes forget about him, he is a mess guy with no car. Get ready to wipe his ass on the weekends, he needs to grow up and start thinking with his brain not his thing. Lose him faster then you think. He is playing you like crazy!
Ghidorah
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Don't forget about him. He cares about his girlfriend because they've known each other for a long time. That doesn't sound like he has any real feelings for her. If he would rather be with you, it is obviously unhealthy for him to stay with the other girl. He doesn't want to hurt her but the longer he keeps his present course, the more it will hurt her and him. He should look for other living arrangements. Before that, though, he should really evaluate his feelings towards both you and her, then make a decision based on that.
If he really wanted to be with you he would be with you. He likes the idea of having you and his girlfriend. I think both of you should drop him. He's playing games.
jjellybean
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Honey, forget about him. If he did love you it wouldn't matter if he'd been born beside the other girl, he'd come with you. He'd find a home and bend over backwards for you. Let this jerk go!
Forget about this loser. How would you like to be in the shoes of the girl that lives with him? He is not available to you for a relationship and the fact that he is doing things behind her back says a ton about his character. Raise the bar higher for yourself and let this one go. Trust me, you are better off.
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