I'm really confused... I hate weekends because I can only see my boyfriend at school. Every weekend I think about killing myself... it's hard for me to get through the weekends... Especially this weekend for 2 reasons. 1) we didn't have school Thursday and Friday so it's an even longer weekend and 2) all this trick-or-treating stuff going on makes me think of last year. I always hated halloween. Everything about it until last year when I spent it with him. I remember every little thing of that day and the day before. My memory of those 2 days are better than I can remember of any other day in my entire life and everything was so perfect. Anyways, I almost want to just give up...
His mom won't let us talk and it's been this way since May. It seems like it's going to be forever before we can actually hang out. I will never give up on me but if I have to, I will give up on my life. But I'm trying not to because I look forward to spending more time with him and that's really the only thing keeping me alive. But I just can't do it anymore, how do I get through this... it's 6 months now (about) and were still going out but just seeing each other at school for a few minutes isn't enough.
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Can you approach the problem logically and rationally with the parents? Create reasons why you should be allowed to see each other and strike a deal - if they let you then you'll do X, Y and Z.
For instance, you'll get your grades up, do household chores, whatever, for the rights to see each other.
If you are 18, can you run off with him? If not, you've got to work on your parents and his parents. It seems like the major problem is that they won't let you see each other. If they knew how much you cared for each other, they'd have to come around!
Don't think of ending your life because this is only temporary. Instead, think of those times you spend together and smile, be happy. Many people don't have anyone so at least you have someone even if you can't see him as often as you'd like. Think of the people whose girlfriend or boyfriend are off in Iraq, you know?
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