Sometimes I think my boyfriend doesn't really like how I act... What do you guys look for in personality?? And what can I do to keep him around... and make him come to me instead of me always going to him? its hard to explain but heres an example of something I'm wanting to say: If he wants to break up with me, I'll keep crying and begging him not to. If I wanted to break up with him, he would pretend not to care... could me acting like that have a lot to do with it?? He never gets mad anymore and so he never wants to break up or anything but if I acted like I didn't care about him so much, would that make him come to me more?? like would he start wondering why and w/e? 1 time I told him "its over" and well, he didn't just say "okay" I can't remember what he said but it was kinda like he didn't want it to be. what should I do to get him to come to me more and how should I act to keep him around?
I'm not going to respond to all the different questions you've got out here. I'm going to limit myself to three responses. While I don't want to offend you and you are asking good questions, the underlying answer to everyone of them is that this guy is an asshole and you should cut him out of your life forever as of today. There are a ton of great guys out there - find one of them instead. Break this pattern now before it traps you and becomes your understanding of guys.
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