He cheated in past - should that effect the present?

This is really freaking me out because I just asked this very same question on here and still don't really know what to do. Looking at it through a different perspective though is rather enlightening. I too have been in a relationship for almost seven years now. I know my boyfriend has cheated on me the first two years we were together. I asked him to come clean recently and he said he messed around with 2 girls but never had sex with anyone. Things have been going good now for the last 2 years and now I come to find out he never really did come clean with me because I just found out about yet another girl. He also claims that he has changed and doesn't seem the same way. Except every person I have told this situation to tells me the same thing. To leave him and that once a person cheats they always will.

I would give him a second chance but be careful because he's hurt you in the past. Tell him that it will take a while for you to be able to trust him again but that you still love him. It will be a warning to him that he is on thin ice with you and that he better watch his back. If he ever cheats again I would have to say leave him because he obviously doesn't care about you and that's not what you need. I hope everything works out for you, good luck!

I would stay with him but keep a close eye on him.