There is this girl that I was talking to for a while and had feelings for. Over the year or so that we were intimate with each other she played so many games and truly played me. She treated me like crap. I have now ended all contact with her and it has been no contact for at least 2 months, maybe a little more, and I have this hate for. I can't seem to just forget about her and move on.
I have tried to go out with other girls since her, Girls that I know could have been something special. But I did not continue anything with them because I did not feel that I was being fair to them with having this feeling of hate for this girl. On one hand I want to do something to get back at her. To make her feel just as horrible as she made me feel, But I know that the longer I dwell on her the longer that it will take me to move on. Please help me by giving me idea's of how I can get her and this feeling of hate out of my system.
Update: I guess that my biggest issue with her is just that she made a fool of me and my ego is hurting. I just want to be able to move on with my life, meet someone special that won't mess with my heart or head.
6 months ago
No, see now you're going the wrong way gettin' back at her isn't the answer if you really can't stop thinkin' about her then call her, get in contact with her, and tell her how you feel and how hurt you felt when she played you. You just gotta get it out in the open with her so you can move on.
Whatever you do.....do not try to get back at her. Do not go as low as she went to hurt you. Be the bigger person here. I totally agree with CrazyAce....it sounds like you still love and care about her. End all contact with her if it's not already ended. That's all I can really think of. Sorry. Good luck.
That feeling is not hate, you do not hate her, in fact it's just the opposite. But you are angry at her for doing that to you cause you still like her, and you are misunderstanding your feelings. I can't tell you what you can do to get over it cause I don't know, but I think with time, you might!
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