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What's the best way to ask someone out, a phone call, text message or email?

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chick (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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There's this guy that I work with and we've talked a few times in passing and gone out to lunch in groups but nothing more. I want to ask him out but I'm not sure how I should do it. Should I call, text or email him?

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koloblicin
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koloblicin (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 days ago
try to do it in person, its much better.i know you may be shy but confidence is key
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james777
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james777 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 days ago
well the best thing to do would be to ask him in person. I personally would be impressed, but the next best thing would be a phone call because its more personal than a text or email
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fartlard
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fartlard (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 hours ago
its best in person.
second best is phone.
do not do it by email or text.
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wonderingwhy
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 days ago
You are bold. I usually let guys chase me, then ask me out. But I guess you should ask him 'in person'.
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likeyeah
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likeyeah (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 days ago
date definitely a phone call. ask him to be with you kinda thing. meet up and just hang out and discuss it later on in the night
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bailarina
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bailarina (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 days ago
Phone call
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lost-angel
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lost-angel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 days ago
Ask him out on a date? Or to be your bf?
If it for a date, then ask him the next time you and him go out as a group.
Try to sit by him or walk by him, or anything you have to do so it could be just you and him. Even for just a few minutes. Learn what his interests are, and what he usually does during the weekend. Let's say he likes pool. Then ask him if he'd like to play pool with you, this weekend.
Or say, you don't know how to play, and you'd like him to teach you.
If you are asking him to become your bf, I suggest you start off with step one in going out on a date, just you and him, before you go in deeper.
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Natalie-Bloop
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Natalie-Bloop (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 days ago
Maybe before you ask him out, spend a little more time with him, get to know him more.
then when you have done that, call him. Tell if he wants to go get some coffee or something, nothing fancy, just sweet and simple, then HE will ask you for the second date =]
good luck!
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Cotton-Candy-Summer
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Cotton-Candy-Summer (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Face to face. Asking him out is different than asking him to be your boyfriend. Casually ask him to a movie or a sporting event or something that you know you will both like and it shouldn't be that hard to do.
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mystery132
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mystery132 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I say face to face..that might just be me but. If you don't do it in person..then its like, it might make the next date awkward sometimes cause starting off a relationship with a text or something just isn't that good. If you do it face to face you will feel comfortable around them when you go on the date. That's just my opinion.
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