There's this guy that I work with and we've talked a few times in passing and gone out to lunch in groups but nothing more. I want to ask him out but I'm not sure how I should do it. Should I call, text or email him?
well the best thing to do would be to ask him in person. I personally would be impressed, but the next best thing would be a phone call because its more personal than a text or email
Ask him out on a date? Or to be your bf? If it for a date, then ask him the next time you and him go out as a group. Try to sit by him or walk by him, or anything you have to do so it could be just you and him. Even for just a few minutes. Learn what his interests are, and what he usually does during the weekend. Let's say he likes pool. Then ask him if he'd like to play pool with you, this weekend. Or say, you don't know how to play, and you'd like him to teach you. If you are asking him to become your bf, I suggest you start off with step one in going out on a date, just you and him, before you go in deeper.
Maybe before you ask him out, spend a little more time with him, get to know him more. then when you have done that, call him. Tell if he wants to go get some coffee or something, nothing fancy, just sweet and simple, then HE will ask you for the second date =] good luck! xxx
Face to face. Asking him out is different than asking him to be your boyfriend. Casually ask him to a movie or a sporting event or something that you know you will both like and it shouldn't be that hard to do.
mystery132
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I say face to face..that might just be me but. If you don't do it in person..then its like, it might make the next date awkward sometimes cause starting off a relationship with a text or something just isn't that good. If you do it face to face you will feel comfortable around them when you go on the date. That's just my opinion.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First date ...would have to be somehwhere casual, so they wouldn't feel like it must go like a "perfect date" . Id say the cinema ,followed by a quiet cafe for coffee and nice lunch.Plenty of time to talk abour each other;likes, dislikes,life in general.Id wear casual,not too smart,not to everyday. Perfectly it would end with a simple kiss on her doorstep and a promise of a second date.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
They would hopefully find out , my good points ,sensitivy , honesty and compassionate.That I'm adventurous and up for anything and that I'd do anything for the perfect girl.They'd also find out that I'd rather know about them then blab on about myself =D
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