Do women play it off like it don't bother them when they are waiting for their guy to call the or e-mail them or text them? Do they just wait for him or are they truly busy?
Hey there, I think this really depends on how much the chick likes you. But I guess we are always flattered when a guy calls us, or msgs us because then we know that they have been thinking about us.
With that being said, I tend to ignore phone calls from people that I don't really want to talk to. If I know someone wants to take me out for a date or ask me out then, I do come across as really busy.
The thing is, there is this one guy that I really like, but who I never am able to pick up him fone calls, coz he has really good timing at calling me when I actually am busy.
So I guess what I'm saying is that they could be busy or just trying to ignore you depending on how much they like you.
I'm not going to lie, I always keep myself busy to rationalize that I'm not "waiting"...However the minute that I'm just relaxing or not focused on work related issues-there are random thoughts that creep in i.e "I wonder if he's thinking of me too?" etc...It's a bunch of cheesy rules but I believe both genders will always save face rather than feel like a fool out in the open. As we get older we make a lot of things very clear if we DON'T want to communicate with a person at all either in settle polite clever ways or just by being straight out...Honestly if I was attracted to a guy I'd always want to be on good terms with him by being friendly, available (in terms not dating any guy in particular) ...If I really didn't like the guy I wouldn't waste my time nor his and nip it in the bud by not being misleading in any shape or form-I'm talking completely platonic...All Girls/Guys flirt here and there, but if you really think about it there are certain people you choose not to be extra friendly with...Same concept
Yeah that's cool its just that not every girl thinks that way,...ive been mislead before and that really sucks....thanks... - 5 months ago
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Well usually when girls are desperate for a guy...they tend to act as tho they are not and I agree. I am like that too...i wait for the guy to make the move.
Honestly we are probably busy, but I think we try to keep ourselves busy as to not seem like all we do is wait around for you to call. We really do want you to call, and we can't do it or else we seem needy and desperate. It's a double edge sword really!!
Sometimes we are busy but personally if I was interested in someone I wouldn't seem desperate but I have waited for a phone call or two but I'd never admit it.
I don't know about the other girls but it doesn't matter if I'm busy or not. I usually wait 'till he contacts me. But it depends on the relationship itself too, cuz I usually act like this in the beginning of the relationship.
Haha I am always waiting! I won't plan to go out if my man dropped some kind of hint that he would call. I am absolutely crazy in love, so that could be why. it does depend on the situation, though.
I am personally always busy... On the other hand: I truly don't do relationships :) Commitment phobia... And if a guy calls more than once a day - that is definitely too clingy!
Wow!!! sorry to hear that...I love women Love to be with them they are the ultimate mystery for me.You'll just hurt yourself in the end by straying away against the grain of love, you really should rethink about committing..to many lonely guys out there - 6 months ago
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I know and I do tell them that it's not about them, it's about me. I am the problem in that equation. Oh well... I'm still young, maybe in time... - 6 months ago
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Well hey your really hot if you don't mind me saying so... - 5 months ago
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At least you're telling it in a decent way :) So, no I don't mind. And thanks. - 5 months ago
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