So recently I have noticed that when ever I like a guy, I always get the same answer, something along the lines of "I like you as a friend". I am not a complete tomboy, but I'm not completely girly either. While I do flirt and know how to just be myself, that's not the issue. The issue is that no matter how confident or how cool I am or how different (in a good way according to the guys) I am from other girls, I'm never seen as girlfriend material. So any advice on how I can be seen as girlfriend material and less girl friend material?
Well, that's not really giving too much to go on, but. one thought to throw out there: Maybe they really enjoy having you as a friend. Some guys have girl friends that they like, and have feelings for, but treasure their friendship too much to risk it. It always seems to make things awkward when relationships don't work out and old friends just go their separate ways.
This is a hard one to answer because I can't see how you interact with these guys or what your appearance is. So there could be a couple of things going on here... 1) you could be just seen as "one of the guys" Generally guys like a girl to have a little mystery to them. It could be that you are putting it all out there and acting more like a "guy" maybe you could not be so forthright or really upfront about stuff. 2) I hate to say this, but maybe they don't see you as someone who they think of sexually. Do you wear baggy clothes, and not take some effort in your appearance? I am just generalizing here, I mean no disrespect because I can't see what is going on to really tell you. I would try to make more of an impression in your appearance. Don't act like "one of the guys" because they will only see you as that. If you start to hold back, but still be nice, guys will start to see that there is something different about you and might start to see you differently.
Well I don't wear baggy clothes, but I don't dress showing like a lot of cleavage. I wear fitting pants and shirts. But I do understand what you are saying about not revealing to much. I'll try not being so outgoing and holding back a little. - 9 months ago
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Yea, guys love a little mystery, and a challenge. l would also try and hang out more with some girls, but still keep the guy friends. This way you will also be seen a little differently. It could be that right now you are just too available, and too open. - 9 months ago
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