When you break up with a girlfriend, do you like it if they continue to contact you to talk or do you like it when they play hard to get and don't contact you at all?
Update: I was not the cause of the breakup/ he was/Cheater
4 months ago
It depends on circumstances of the break up.. If you decide to be friends or it was a mutual break up or something than call him, if you did something t cause the break up then don't contact him at all.
I know you asked this question for the guys.. but I really wanted to say something =) I would say that when you breakup that you should not initiate any contact with each other until things have settled down (usually that means never)
The bad thing about contacting someone you have just broken up with, is that you relive all these fiery emotions that came fresh out of the oven. Not only this, you are feeling extremely vulnerable at this point in time.
One of the things that happens with the ending of relationships is that both partners have to go through the process of accepting what has happened. If you continue to contact them during this process at the back of your mind, you are still hoping that "maybe" it will all work out.
So my advice would be to not talk to them, until you know within yourself that you have gotten over him =)
And by that time, I'm sure there will be another more interesting guy who deserves your attention anyways
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First dates are tricky. You want to impress but not go overboard. My ideal first date would start with dinner at a restaurant with an atmosphere where we can get to know each other. I'd wear a pair of jeans, a dark button down semi-casual dress shirt and a leather jacket just in case she gets cold. We'd go dancing after the date if she's up for it, after which I drop her off at her place.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She'll hopefully know I'm not the worst dancer she's ever seen, that I have a good sense of humor, and that I'm a good guy. Other than that, you've got to keep yourself somewhat a mystery because if you spill your entire life story early on she's going to lose interest pretty quick. Hopefully, if everything goes well, she'll also know she can kiss me back by the end of the first date.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
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