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Whats the worst thing your ex has done?

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Hot-Alpha-Female (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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So I just found out that my ex boyfriend is dating my brother's ex girlfriend. We all used to hang out in a group and the only reason they know each other is because of me and my brother. I don't know whether I wanna bitch slap someone or puke. I'm still deciding. Come to think of it, it's laughable. Kinda like Laguna Beach meets the OC or something.

So I was just wondering do you guys have any horror stories that will put my story to shame and make me feel like its really not all that bad?

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f15x28 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
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chrisd (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
My ex tried to f*** my best friend on the couch while I was sleeping on the floor....then she gave him the condom to hold onto until he was comfortable with it.
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samthan (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
That is so wrong I am sorry for you brother and you. you both deserve better. how long were you guys with your gf and bf. that's totally wrong that would be like me dating my exbf sometime bf brother which is so wrong cause he is like a brother too me...
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Question Asker I dated my ex for 3 years. My brother dated his ex for 19months. They got together about 1 year after my breakup and about 6 months after my bro broke up with his gf. Its just funny coz they look really weird together. LoL Thanks for caring though =) - 5 months ago

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trulymadly (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
He didn't have the courage to be "the asshole" and sever all ties with me, no matter how many times that I called, texted, or IMed him, especially when he knew that I had strong feelings for him and would/could never truly be "friends".

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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Yep, my ex is screwing his secretary from his law firm.. that he is a partner. He is a smart one that guy... Law suit if the sex goes bad! I caught them then I sent an email around to all of his Law firm in a mass email letting them all know to disinfect the bathrooms and desk.. I think it pissed him off... :)
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
OMG well my ex was at his house with his "Best friend" and his friend(a girl). "Supposedly" she kissed his best friend then she kissed my boyfriend! Then my boyfriend takes off his clothes and they take nude pics of him!!!!! ahhh talk about a nightmare! I don't think I'll ever get over it...but you know, life goes on
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ladykay (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
My ex was a real loser. Fortunately, I figured it out before I married him.

I broke up with him because I knew that we were drifting apart and we were heading in different directions. The break-up was tough but we got through it. We were once living together in an apartment for 3 years and so once we broke up, he said that he would be fine with moving out and leaving me the apartment. He took the dog and left me with the furniture. He was very hurt but he was accepting. We kept in touch as friends and talked to each other almost every week. He told me how tough it was dating. I was just enjoying my new found freedom and not looking for any new relationships to get into. I was in good shape...

Then 3 months after he moved out, he called me and told me that he found a girl and that they were moving in together. I was kinda worried because it seemed very soon but I was also happy for him because I felt like I had broken his heart, but I figured that at least he was moving forward with his life.

Then the next week he tells me that he was moving back into our apartment complex with this girl because his credit was no good anywhere else! I was furious. I could see their balcony less than 15 feet from my own. They walked the dog together (it used to be our dog) every night and I could hear them talking. I was enraged that he was doing that to me and my neighbors who knew us both were confused and felt sorry for me. One month he is kissing and hugging me as we walked our mini pincher, the next month he is back with another girl doing the same thing.

It was embarrassing, depressing, and mean. I felt shame like one of the women on those talk shows whose boyfriend announces to the whole world that he was in love with someone else. It was just so trailer trash. I feared ever having to run into them in the garage or in the laundry room. I told him that I would never speak to him but he could not understand why. I moved out as soon as I could. I never understood why he did that. He texted me a month ago asking how I was doing because we hadn't talked for a couple of years after that incident. I told him how angry I was at the time and he apologized for being an idiot. He said that he was just in a bad place at the time. Now I am over him but it took a good couple of years to get back on the wagon because in a way, it really tore me up. I had to question everything I knew about men because after that incident, I felt like I was lost.

Well, learn from my experience and realize that you are lucky you lost that loser and you can find a real man now. Best wishes to you.
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Question Asker Hi Ladykay, Thank you for sharing that. I guess when things like that happen and we are treated badly, we appreciate it more when we find the right guy. All the best with your search and I'm glad too that you got over that "loser" =) - 5 months ago
chrisd He never stopped loving you....in his way that girl was just a way of saying "ha I can make it"....but in reality he was thinking "i hope she feels for me again by seeing this."...just a word from a guy who has done things similar(though never like that). - 5 months ago
Answerer Chrisd, you are soooo right. Thanks for being honest about using your own perspective to comfort me. - 5 months ago
 
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