How can I forget about my ex?

If he wasn't cheating, the constant accusations of infidelity probably hurt his feelings. It sounds to me like the girl was just a good friend. Not all girls are out to steal your man or make you jealous, especially ones whom he could have dated before you but didn't. He probably didn't explain himself because you wouldn't have believed him anyway. Then, when you broke up with him, he asked himself, "Is this the way it's always going to be? If so, then I'm better off alone."

If he told you that the girl was only a friend and you didn't believe him, you showed a lack of trust. To mend this relationship, you'll need to apologize for accusing him. From what you wrote, it seems that you were looking for reasons to doubt him, and whenever you'd find something, you'd claim that he was cheating. If the relationship is to succeed, you'll need to overcome your jealousy.

Just forget about him. Get rid of all the stuff that reminds you about him. Keep yourself occupied by either hanging out with your girlfriends, enjoying a hobby or doing something productive. Even when your thinking about him, to forget about him, think about the negative qualities about him and tell yourself that you can do better than him. I hope this helps

Hi girl,
I know that this situation sucks and I'm sorry that it had to end this way! When you say how can I forget him I want to remind you that breaking up is all about a process. You can't skip to the healing part without going through all the steps before it.

so I guess what I'm trying to say is don't force yourself to try and forget about him. Grieve about the lost relationship you have. Grieve about all the hopes and dreams you had about the future you may have planned with him.

only then will you be on a healthier path to accepting what has happened and then looking forward and seeing what you learned from the experience about yourself, life and relationships.

all the best with it

hot alpha female

Okay let me be perfectly honest with you. I'm engaged and my best friend is gay. I ALWAYS tell him I love him but then again I tell all my friends I love them... even the guys because I do they're my friends! You need to back off your man. If you trust him enough to date him you need to trust he's not cheating on you. You should smile when another girl tells him that she loves him (in a friend only manner of course) because you know he's loved and he's ALL YOURS!

You cannot just breakup with this poor guy over and over again and then come back begging for him like a little puppy dog that lost it's ball. How would you feel if one of your best guy friends said "love ya" he broke up with you and then came back begging? You should have sat down with him.. said sweetie what's going on with that girl? Why did she say she loved you was it just in a friendly way or are you cheating on me and does she like you more than just a friend? You should have asked him directly instead of throwing a fit and breaking the relationship off.

Communication is key to keeping a successful relationship. If you don't talk about it then it will cause problems. Just because you "kinda think they have a relationship" does not mean they do. And he doesn't want to talk about it because he knows if he says one damn word you will bash him in the face by breaking up. The sad part for you is that you want this guy it seems you like him a lot... but you pushed him away so he may end up going his own way now and it's your fault.

I'm sorry for being a bitch about it but there could have been other ways of avoiding this breakup.