I broke up with my bf many times within the 8 months relationship. First couples time we broke up we ended back the next day. Right now is the serious break up that happened on December 9, 2007. I just took time off and keep myself busy and stayed out from him. Until this week I started to missed him and think back to the time we were good and I smiled at it. I'm starting to feel worried that I might loose him if he doesn't want me back. I can feel symptoms in him that he still has feeling for me but I never done anything because I wasn't sure what I wanted until now I want him back.
I want to know if he still wants me back or not. It seems like he still likes me but he's hiding his pride? He surprised me at midnight on my b-day and got me a present. My b-day is on Dec. 24 and his on Dec 22nd , he wanted to spend his bday with me and I tried somehow he got me mad that day and I left. From 8:30pm until around midnight on his bday he called me 25 times to apologized and said he wanted to spend the rest of his bday with me.
I never called him back then on Dec 23rd he called like at least 20 times more but I ignored until around 10pm I picked up and then he was doing a count down and went and bought me a b-day present and called me up at midnight to wish me a Happy Birthday. Why did he do that??? I didn't acknowledge his thought and effort at that time. I didn't appreciate what he did for me at that time because I didn't want to give him wrong signal or didn't want to get suck back in. I did asked him at that time whether he wanted me back and he said no, was it because he knew I didn't want him back so he didn't want to get rejected again?
AHHHH I now know it was a mistake and Im more ready and know what I want than before. I just didn't want to hurt him by going back to him when I'm not ready. Can someone tell me some general hints that I can try to feel it myself to see whats in his mind he still likes me he wants me back? If I want to re-consider the relationship with him then should I talk to him in person or should I write him a letter? What should I say or do????
Ok, you are a head trip. You guys have only been together for 8 months and broken up many times within that 8 months? You are a head trip, you seem to "break-up" when he does something you don't like. You need to communicate. You both obviously are just attracted to each other. You must be very hot because only a fool would put up with your confusing logic if you were fugly. Know yourself, are you really liking this guy? Or are you just lonley? You need to know what you want and keep this poor guy on the back burner. GUYS appreciate honesty and straight talk. If you really like this guy, forget about your pride and go for it. Remember you have the vagina! You have all the power.
Well, I think you should just let it go. I mean the first 8 months should still be the "honeymoon" stage. You apparently are not still there from all the breaking up. If it hasn't worked yet, then I hate to say it, its not going to now. You are addicted to having a relationship. Take a break and see if it's really what you want. I am confused from just reading it, I can't imagine living it. Just try solitude for awhile.
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