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Will pursuing her make me look desperate?

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seraph37 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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Okay, so my first question ever was in regards to a bartender that I met...

I got her number and we talked a couple times and now... nothing. lol.

Now some answered that I might have seemed a little desperate... and I respect that.

so my question is now... can I bounce back? is there a way to re-ignite her interest? sounds desperate again on my end but I'm just curious.

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Lovin-laughter (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
It would be hard to change her mind by just calling her. You have to meet up with her or something. Or by chance bump into her somewhere.
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Ummm I really don't think so either she liked you or she didn't well if you go to that same bar and she gives you her number again then maybe....
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Stanley (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Nope - I don't think there is a way. Girls either like you right away or they don't (this is true even when friends turn into lovers - just takes longer for her to open up). If you get shot down the first time, the best thing to do is move on.

Worst thing that can happen is she likes you enough to pay some attention and you fall for her harder. Now you desperately want a girl who doesn't see you as a potential partner. You don't need that.
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He likes you

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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually start off with a joke. I use comedy as an ice breaker. If I'm nervous that's all I'll do. If not I just strike up a conversation. I'm good at both.

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They talk back. Half the time I get to take them on a date.

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