How to tell if a guy is cheating?

I agree with Lesea
How long have you been with him? Maybe he thinks that you are falling out of love with him. I think he made need to be reassured about how you truly feel for him. I would try to show him some extra attention ask him whats wrong and truly listen to what he has to say.

I was with a girl for 6.5 years. She had no friends in the beginning and I was her only good friend. She eventually went to school and made some new friends. Everything she use to talk to me about was now being discussed with her new friends. I was out of the show and felt terrible. I thought she was falling out of love with me. I thought she might be interested in other people. I thought possibly that she may be cheating. I felt like I was pushed further and further away. I loved her and at the same time my heart was breaking with insecurity. One day she must have realized I was quite distant. I still loved her more than ever but the distance alone must have made her feel as tho maybe I was cheating. I never cheated. I was the most faithful person in the world. I just needed a lot of reassuring which I never received. The relationship ended badly. So it might be a good idea to ask him whats wrong. Reassure him that your really do care and that you are still attracted to him.

Yes I do think something is up!
That asking if your cheating thing is usually a guilty way of saying "its okay because so did I".
Either that or someone has started some type of rumor about you...
But All guys are different when it comes to motives of the reason "WHY".
He may feel like you are being distant with him.

I was taught that a womans intuition is like 98.5% of the time correct...
So you know all that you need to already.
Good Luck


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man

If a person is asking you this question they probably have done it already themselves. Why ask if you haven't done anything. The other thing is that whatever you do in the dark will come to the light. If you are doing wrong to someone or living foul you will tell on yourself eventually. It happened to me this weekend. The man I've been with for 3 years was finally exposed when I called his house and another women answered the phone. I have for awhile suspected that he was doing something just couldn't put my finger on it. Now I know what's been going on all those times you disappeared for weeks at a time and were always "busy".

Ah. I can spot a cheater. If he talks on his cell and tries to hide it, if he gets calls in the middle of the night, if he disappears for hours, if he acts like you don't matter, if he questions everything you do, and most of all. If he stops having sex as much with you. He might just feel insecure right now. If you have made more friends and go out he might feel like he just isn't as important to you. It sounds like he just needs reassurance. He could just be seeing if you really want to be with just him. Just give him reassurance.