I know there is so much stuff that goes into this thought, but make a bulleted list of things your girl must have. It can be anywhere from religion to no glasses! I'm just curious.
In no particular order (and keeping in mind that some of these have wider tolerances than others)
-Smolderingly hot. - Ragingly good sense of humor, and an appreciation for honesty and sarcasm. - A wide wicked streak, with a tendency for impropriety. - Subtle and intelligent; honestly, I'd like one who is inscrutable, at least some of the time. "interestingly complex". - Athletic, with that 'firm softness' to her that's directly between soft and 6-pack land. - Mischievous. - Classy; I'd rather her tastes run to the stockings and lace than jeans and t-shirts. (When the situation doesn't particularly demand one or the other. ) - Honest, as well as tolerant of me mind-reading poorly (and well, for that matter). - Understanding of 'bouts of stupidity'. - Refined, without being stuck-up: A mac and cheese with creme brulee for dessert sort. - Mildly nymphomaniacal. - And of the sort that can still blush, but enjoys being made to.
Very attractive, but not too attractive (7-9 on a 1-10 scale). Thin / Athletic Healthy eater Cook Non-smoker Atheist or very tolerant and open minded Intelligent College graduate or in college Uses very little makeup Amazing sense of humor and personality Able to doll up for dates and dress down for hanging out Loves and enjoys sports Drinks alcohol but isn't an alcoholic Sane family Stable mind
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
- Excuse me Miss, I was watching you from over there and I have to say that I just love your smile. It makes me happy just to just sit and watch you smiling. Could you please do that again?
(she hopefully smiles and gives up a sweet happy laugh)
- Oh dear, you just made my day - both a lovely smile and a lovely laughter! Thanks for making my day, Miss.
How do they typically respond?
Well, to be honest I haven't tried it yet since I almost never go out nowadays, but I wouldn't hesitate it I was to be in this situation. The way I do it, I would not be pushy or anything. After my last comment I would probably leave her for now, but try to bump in to her again later that evening, smile and ask for that lovely laugh again. And then maybe, we can start to have a conversation.